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Are there any Latinos here ? How did you guys open up to your parents about ocd ? My mom is somewhat more understanding of it and supportive .
Are there any Latinos here ? How did you guys open up to your parents about ocd ? My mom is somewhat more understanding of it and supportive .
hi! i’m latina. luckily my mom is more open-minded about mental health than most hispanic parents but she still can be pretty frustrating about it. a lot of her advice amounts up to “pray” but i’m fortunate that she pushed me pretty hard to find therapy. as for how i opened up, i haven’t really. i don’t like to tell anyone the specifics of my themes, but i have been pretty frank about what ocd can be. i’ve told her about how it’s more than just contamination and there can harm and pocd subtypes. if you want to show her how it can feel like to have ocd, i would recommend this video https://youtu.be/HeYjDbRmAsM
I am not Latino, I am Swedish, and my mom has no real understanding but tries to understand, she wants to be supportive but doesn't honestly understand the whole thing
@Veeeee I suggest showing her videos soo she can better comprehend it and understand it’s true concept. I’m sure there’s some form of translation . Are you from Sweden ? Do you guys have videos there on mental health explaining ocd ?
@Veeeee Are you a teenager as well?
I am latina & it’s honestly really hard for me to open to my mom & dad as well about it. It’s always “ get over it “ & that i’m just being dramatic & etc. Which makes it harder for me, i try to explain it to them but then i know they’re going to look at me confused. I have tried before to explain it & all i get is the same responses. So i just don’t really open up to them about it, i get called picky.
I am latina, and to be honest it was hard bc they didnt quite understand what i was going thru they would just tell me "dont think that way" or blame it on something else (spouse, stress etc) it wasnt until i made my husband take me to get help at a mental health hospital. That my parents realized how serious it was and then i gave them the diagnosis, and they began to do their own research and they now sorta understand and try to help me thru it. But for the most part they are just supportive. Which is okay to me. I was just tired of them making me feel like i couldnt just get over it.
Hey guys! I wanna know, does anybody here has told someone close about their ocd? Because i just told my mom and even though she handled it very well i don’t know how i feel.
Do your parents have OCD too? My mother definitely has it, and some themes I got from her. It’s brutal to have soocd since childhood, I never had those years when I could just live and love... Every crush, every feeling, sensation, glance and thought were always either for or against this theme. I don’t have this good times to go back to, all my relationships were a bit positioned by this doubt. I can’t help but blame my mom who was herself obsessing about her and my sexuality and knew no better than actually telling me all that crazy stuff...
Having a difficult time talking to my mom about my OCD diagnosis. She thinks that’s not what I have and that I’m probably just searching for something to call it. She associates OCD with the hand-washing and cleanliness, however I deal with harm and religious OCD. Explained I thought it was general anxiety but with the obsessive intrusive thoughts and mental compulsions I’ve been experiencing I suspected it could be OCD and had that confirmed by my therapist. Anyone else have a hard time talking with their families on the subject?
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