anxiety so bad, TOCD

that’s exactly what i’m struggling with and have been struggling with for 2 years, but i learned that our ocd is telling us that we’re in denial. but i definitely understand how you feel it’s so consuming and really messes with your head. it feels like i’m trying so hard to figure out whether it’s ocd or not, but that’s one of the biggest struggles everyone with ocd goes through. i’m here to talk if you need to vent or anything :)

@Anonymous thank you so so much ♥️

i struggle with this too something that helped me was realizing that gender can be fluid many things are fluid with ocd but accepting that i don’t have to have a label has helped me realize that just because i was a tomboy rather than fitting into societies expectations of how girls should act and dress doesn’t mean i don’t want to be a girl because that’s how ive define being a girl also there are boys who dress feminine and there are all different types of genders besides for male and female that you could also fit in. you don’t know which is making you anxious but just breathe and understand that you don’t have to know and just because you don’t fit into societal gender expectations doesn’t mean how you dress doesn’t validate you as a female. however you feel is okay and you can get through this