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Because it gives the same emotions as if there is a real and direct threat. The brain likes to give you something to problem solve. When you get a good thought chances are you not doing anything for that and the brain won't give you this thought again. But if there are some trash thoughts or thoughts that feels disturbing you act on it and the brain will give you more of these thoughts because you like to problem solve it. If you go by your day and let the anxiety be there it will ease after a while because your brain will record this as a thought that is not worth problem solving and will discard this more in the future. This how you recover from OCD.
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- 2y ago
If it didn’t we wouldn’t have OCD. It’s just the way the OCD brain work. Nathan Peterson has really good videos about this on YouTube!
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OCD targets the area of our brain that is designed to warn us of danger - unfortunately ours is broken so that is why an intrusive thought "feels" real. The same area of the brain that tells us to run when we see a lion coming at us is the same area that processes intrusive thoughts. So, for a person with OCD - it appears that there is something that we must figure out in order to feel safe again - when in reality it is a false alarm. Our brains are telling us there is danger where there is no danger at that moment. That is why ERP therapy works so well - because when doing ERP we are basically retraining our brains to react differently to the intrusive thoughts. I hope this helps.
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I believe it’s because your mind picks up the thoughts as a threat, it all feels so real because your brain is trying to get you to act and make yourself safe
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- 2y ago
Because it wouldn't be a disorder if it didn't feel real
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- 2y ago
It FEELS so real because of the FEELINGS associated with the thought. Those strong floods of fear, guilt, shame, disgust, etc is what causes us to want to put so much importance on the intrusive thoughts! It attacks our values! People we love! It even attacks us! Of course it FEELS real. It is really happening to us! Practice self compassion and resist, resist, resist those compulsions, being mindful that it is OCD and OCD does not make the thoughts real or come to fruition. Y'all hang in and keep choosing ERP!
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- 2y ago
I’d love to know this too. I think it’s because it’s illogic. Brains are logical but ocd is illogical. And because our ocd brains like to find ‘proof’ too. It makes it harder to disbelieve
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- 2y ago
We believe our thoughts are truth, they are not! But they do FEEL real,that’s why we have to meet intrusive thoughts with uncertainty
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- 25w ago
Everything feels so real. I think learning about non-offending pedophiles has really screwed with me. I feel like I’m not even doing compulsions anymore like I genuinely cannot remember if I do them or not and the groinal responses are messing with me. I keep having intrusive dreams and I’m in that half asleep state and I feel nothing after that or I feel weird like a good weird, I don’t know. It’s a really weird feeling when I get those thoughts but I don’t like them, I don’t think. All I know is, I keep seeking reassurance and I feel like I don’t have OCD because the way I feel, like the way I get worked up isn’t the same as others. Whenever I try to watch a show, like 9-1-1 or daily dose of sunshine, I feel like I’m watching something I shouldn’t be. Or if I’m just on my phone, I feel like something is going to happen. I feel red flags whenever I’m on my phone, like somehow cp will appear. I know that OCD is the doubting disorder but my god, this is just crazy. I feel like I’m going crazy. Everything is just nonstop, it’s so constant and I’m genuinely scared that I’ll do something when I get out of my room. I don’t know anymore, this whole OCD thing is just making me lose my mind.
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- 25w ago
I feel like im loosing my mind. I feel like i experience derealization or what. I feel confused like very very confused. I cant even think normally. Im just tired. I feel like im loosing myself. Im scared that everyone tells me that i have OCD, but what if this is all true? I dont think and im scared that other so-ocd sufferers dont feel this way as i do. I feel literally, LITERALLY so convinced that this must be true. It feels like i already accepted that this is true. Im done. My brain is broken. I even started to have thoughts like what if i have schizophrenia or dissociative identity disorder. Help me please. Do i have psychosis or what?
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- 24w ago
Earlier today for about a few hours i spent the whole entire time in my room researching a certain topic and feeling 100% convinced it was true and that it was the real me and i never had ocd. There was convincing evidence too. I was freaking out, crying, etc. i hardly remember what i was thinking, its almost like i blacked out. I keep trying to remember because from what i do remember some of the thoughts kinda bother me. I ended up calming down and snapping back into what i think is reality, and felt completely opposite of what i was thinking just 5 minutes prior. Im so confused, i dont know who i am, i feel like im actually going crazy.
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