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- 2y
In need of positivity
I really want to have a family someday with my boyfriend. I’m so scared POCD will keep me from that. Can anyone share success :(
I really want to have a family someday with my boyfriend. I’m so scared POCD will keep me from that. Can anyone share success :(
I don’t know if this is a success story, but here’s my story. I dealt with severe pocd when I was 15. It was a battle everyday and I couldn’t focus on school or my daily activities. It was a nightmare and was very traumatic. I have two little sisters who I love to death, and when I had pocd, it was hard to be around them. It was a complete nightmare. Overtime, as I started to focus on other things and keeping myself busy everyday, the pocd.. kinda disappeared for me. I can happily see my sisters now without any intrusive thoughts actually. Maybe it’s because I’m struggling with other ocd themes idk. But I hope this story gives you some sort of hope.
@AliS914 This does give me some hope. Thank you ❤️
I have 4 children, and pocd. I know the thoughts don't mean anything, because they aren't mine, and I'd never hurt them the way I was hurt as a child. Most of the time, I don't give any heed to intrusive pocd thoughts, and if I start to worry I'll be a monster I remind myself...they're my babies and I truly love them. I know I'd never hurt them. Idk if this helps. It used to be worse, because I'd worry I might hurt them one day, or do something without thinking - it was terrifying. But the less attention I gave the thoughts, the less frequent they became, and the less intense they were.
This would be a good exposure for pocd. My godsister had it bad but then she had a baby and we’re so happy. She still has the thoughts but they don’t scare because they don’t mean anything. Don’t let ocd take that away from you
Thank you everyone ❤️ it does help. Not trying to get reassurance, I just don’t want to give up.
Definitely don't give up on your dream. It can get better. 💜
If anyone else can share I’d appreciate it..
So I’m really struggling to believe that anyone will want to be in a relationship with me and still love me when they find out about my pocd and intrusive thoughts. I am holding a belief no one can love me with this condition and they will be repulsed by me when they find out. I just don’t know how to shake that feeling and be brave enough to try and share with anyone I’m dating.
Hey friends. I hope you all are doing good today. Just struggling mentally myself. Feel like a terrible mother, but I want another baby. My OCD has gotten better despite the terrible episode I had that I seem to not get over. I hope someone comments that could just give me some support with POCD
I’ve seen wayyyy too many negative posts on here (I totally get it)…but can someone please share some positive experiences? Doesn’t have to be so grand, it could be just that you achieved a small goal with your ocd! I don’t want to continue feeling drowned by this debilitating disorder. I want to see what has helped some of you! So we can all encourage each other! 😊
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