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- Sam-OverOcd
- Date posted
- 2y ago
In need of positivity
I really want to have a family someday with my boyfriend. I’m so scared POCD will keep me from that. Can anyone share success :(
I really want to have a family someday with my boyfriend. I’m so scared POCD will keep me from that. Can anyone share success :(
I don’t know if this is a success story, but here’s my story. I dealt with severe pocd when I was 15. It was a battle everyday and I couldn’t focus on school or my daily activities. It was a nightmare and was very traumatic. I have two little sisters who I love to death, and when I had pocd, it was hard to be around them. It was a complete nightmare. Overtime, as I started to focus on other things and keeping myself busy everyday, the pocd.. kinda disappeared for me. I can happily see my sisters now without any intrusive thoughts actually. Maybe it’s because I’m struggling with other ocd themes idk. But I hope this story gives you some sort of hope.
@AliS914 This does give me some hope. Thank you ❤️
This would be a good exposure for pocd. My godsister had it bad but then she had a baby and we’re so happy. She still has the thoughts but they don’t scare because they don’t mean anything. Don’t let ocd take that away from you
I have 4 children, and pocd. I know the thoughts don't mean anything, because they aren't mine, and I'd never hurt them the way I was hurt as a child. Most of the time, I don't give any heed to intrusive pocd thoughts, and if I start to worry I'll be a monster I remind myself...they're my babies and I truly love them. I know I'd never hurt them. Idk if this helps. It used to be worse, because I'd worry I might hurt them one day, or do something without thinking - it was terrifying. But the less attention I gave the thoughts, the less frequent they became, and the less intense they were.
Thank you everyone ❤️ it does help. Not trying to get reassurance, I just don’t want to give up.
Definitely don't give up on your dream. It can get better. 💜
If anyone else can share I’d appreciate it..
Does anyone with POCD have children? I want to have children in the future, but the idea of it really scares me because of my fears. Something I have been learning in therapy is not to make fear-based decisions. So it’s definitely something I want to do, but I just wanna know some of your experiences with this.
I saw someone on here talking about how they don’t think people with severe ocd can be in a relationship because they’re too much of a burden and it really really freaked me out. I know it’s not reasonable and they were probably just in a bad place but all I want is to grow up and have a husband and kids and it already hurts when my ocd is attacking that and making me feel undeserving but thinking that I’m completely unlovable makes me want to crawl in a hole. I just want to be happy and I’m afraid I’ll never be able to have a good life because of my stupid brain that latches into everything. I’ve already wasted so much time freaking out over random stupid stuff I just want to be normal and happy. I’m not sure if asking for help and advice around this is reassurance because it’s not really a part of my ocd it feels more like general anxiety. But I would like to hear other people’s experiences with dating or just generally living with ocd.
Are there any moms out there who are struggling with pocd? I wanted a child my whole life since I was a little girl but pocd is ruining everything. Can anyone share their story?
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