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- 2y
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Is it normal to cry when dealing with the discomfort of uncertainty in erp?
Is it normal to cry when dealing with the discomfort of uncertainty in erp?
It definitely happens but if it’s every single time you do an exposure, you need to speak to your therapist because the exposure might be too much for you at this time and you need to do something lower.
I cried immediately during my intake, and I have done this in all therapy settings. I believe it indicates our capacity to hold everything in until we are in a safe place to express how uncomfortable we are. Also why ERP is scary to me
I believe I cried both when I found this app and read people sharing there experience and hope, and during the first therapy session I had with my therapist. I would guess that’s probably pretty normal. In the beginning, for me, the emotion/feeling during ERP was so intense, and it gradually became less so as time progressed. Your therapist would probably also know the answer to this, having so much experience. Glad to hear you’re continuing with ERP through those intense emotions!
I cried a lot and got panic attacks
What would I do for ERP if my OCD says because I didn’t do something correctly or remember something I will have panic attacks that don’t end?
I read about ERP and have seen information about it on here. One of the goals is to say, "maybe I am this or that...ect." That terrified me. The thoughts and images that go in my head are disturbing and upsetting. I don't want to even think about saying, "maybe this or that." It's devasting to have these thoughts and question why you're having these thoughts. Doesn't the "maybe" make it worse? The one thing that helps me is that is to remind myself that these are just thoughts and I know I'm not a monster, even if I feel like one. Is ERP not for everyone? Has anyone else had a problem with the techniques used in this kind of therapy? I had cognitive therapy for years with an OCD specialist and that seemed to help a lot. Writing out the worst case scenarios would make me suicidal. Im having a difficult time not obsessing over the "maybe" after intrusive thoughts now. It doesn't make it better.
I'm just laying here avoiding being an adult and wondering if during ERP the therapists are mean. Like, is it a "tough love" type of situation? That makes me anxious
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