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Aw I’m so sorry you are going through that! Don’t do anything you aren’t comfortable with. If you aren’t okay with sharing your thoughts, don’t tell him. He should respect your boundaries. On the other hand, if you feel like it’s time to share about your ocd, go right ahead and tell him! What I used to do is I used to tell my loved ones that my sexual intrusive thoughts were about something else and not about my sexuality… the themes seemed less intense for me personally !

I’m so sorry for this. Try not to count the bad but count up all the good and all the things you are learning 🙂 It’s totally up to you with what you feel comfortable with sharing. All OCD, no matter the subtype is the same exact thought loop, you could start there!