- Date posted
- 6y
- Date posted
- 6y
“Ok next thought” “That’s interesting” “That’s your OCD” I personally think it’s OK to label it as OCD because sometimes it takes a while to even realize it is OCD. So when I label it as OCD the attachment/fear detaches in a way.
- Date posted
- 6y
Repeating things as a response tends to be a compulsion. Labeling is fine as long as it’s just labeling (not compulsive repetition.) If you’d like to label, one technique I use is to label what I want to do and say I won’t do it. Example: “I want to check if that urge was real by comparing it to X, but I’m not going to.” Or “I want to figure out why I just felt that and what it means, but I won’t.” And then sit with the anxiety and move on.
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- 6y
i used to use mantras and repeat them in my head all the time. i didn’t realize it, but i was using it as a distraction from my intrusive thoughts. i was avoiding them. i saw that the thought was there but i turned the other direction and repeated those thoughts over and over until it just went away. it was avoidance and suppression; both are types of compulsions. now, i notice the thought and say hey to it. i know it’s there but i’m just going to keep going with whatever i’m doing. whenever i get an intrusive thought i do this little thing that i find super helpful. 1. I identify and recognize the thought. “i’m scared that ____.” or “i’m worried that _____”. but then say “ok, the thought is there. it’s all fine. i’m ok. i’m just gonna let it be there. it’s WELCOME in my head”. 2. I close my eyes, take a deep breath and try to restart. i ask myself “where are you? what are you doing right now?” and whatever i was doing, i’m just going to go back to it even though this thought is lingering in my head. i know how hard it is to get a thought, be sucked into it, and not be able to refocus your attention on what’s in front of you. i know how hard it is to continue with what you’re doing when there’s this blaring alarm going through your brain. that little ritual helps me a lot through that issue though, and i hope it helps you too!!
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- 6y
Thank you everyone!! This means a lot to me :)
- Date posted
- 6y
I normally use “ a thought is just a thought” but my therapist advised me to be careful because this can become a mental compulsion :/ it helps though
- Date posted
- 6y
“Believe the lies and be sad, or believe the truth and be happy!”
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- 6y
These are just thoughts, they are fading away
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- 6y
I have a few. That’s OCD, not me. There goes the OCD lies again. That’s a garbage thought. So I’ll move on. And them some get vulgar like: Same ole OCD bullshit! And a lot worse. What ever you choose, don’t give the OCD thought anything and do your best to let it be. Then move on and redirect your thoughts to what you want.
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- Date posted
- 24w
What's a piece of advice you give when someone has constantly intrusive thoughts and ruminations that won't stop? Interested to see what you tell others.....more on this when I see some replies!!!
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- 24w
I need advice for intrusive thoughts. I used to feel like I could handle them. They weren’t nearly as bad as the things that related to my actual life. But now, I’m suffering. I haven’t had a sexual experience in over a year that didn’t involve constant intrusive thoughts. Most are somehow related to kids and I keep chasing off the thoughts but it’s so bad. I know you’re supposed to ignore them but I don’t know how I can just ignore that and continue what I’m doing. But they’re coming on stronger. I had one earlier I could not get rid of just as things finished so the thought came on strongly just before my orgasm hit and now I feel absolutely disgusting. I hated the thought and I know it’s not me and it was not enjoyable but it still feels like I was getting off to it. I feel sick. I’m so fucking tired of these thoughts. They’re in my every day life too and it’s all the time. I just want it to stop but ignoring it feels so wrong. What should I do?
- Date posted
- 21w
I been dealing with OCD my entire life but recently I been finding it really difficult to find the slightest relief. I know it’s not good to do but I been trying not to think of the thoughts but of course they come back even stronger. Does anyone know what I could do in the meanwhile ? Thank you
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