Pubbywomwom
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Uncertainty
What are some ways to accept uncertainty other than Maybe, maybe not. That just doesn’t work for me
AnonymousAnonymous
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I don't know, and I don't need to know. I can't be 100% certain, even if I try. These thoughts are uncomfortable, and I can allow them to exist without attaching any meaning to it. I can tolerate discomfort , it will give me freedom of this. Just because these thoughts are uncomfortable, doesn't make them dangerous. It's uncomfortable, and I don't need to judge everything that comes up. I don't need certainty to tolerate this discomfort. I can tolerate not knowing the answer. I can't be sure. I don't need to figure it out. I can't be sure. Could be, could not.
RMO2023RMO2023
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By just not answering any thoughts. Not engaging with them. Either just notice them and let them be, or watch tgem disappear from your mind.
braveheartbraveheart
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Yes, acceptance is an attitude and not a technique. I lean this way at the moment. Don't dignify thoughts with any sort of response.
ListenToTheWindListenToTheWind
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‘I hear you, you can stay or go but I’m not engaging with you’
KeepongoingKeepongoing
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If my ocd is really bad I make fun of it ex. “Nice try ocd i figured you out so fast! You are gonna have to try harder next time”
KeepongoingKeepongoing
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@Keepongoing This one is slightly compulsive in my opinion so i don’t use it often
JamesMYJamesMY
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A good way to accept uncertainty is get busy with life. Be so busy you have to accept the thoughts.
AnonymousAnonymous
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That's difficult when my body can barely do the basics
JamesMYJamesMY
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@Anonymous - I know. I've had Harm OCD for 28 years. Since I have to take care of my father, I am forced to work and do, and I find that even though it's awful to get started, when you have other things you have to do, your mind does get off of it. The worst thing to do as a person with OCD is have time on your hands. I've probably ruminated 1/2 my life away because of that.
Will86Will86
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Seems like Avoidance
JamesMYJamesMY
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@Will86 - You've got the floor, tell us how to accept uncertainty. Even ERP doesn't teach you to do that. ERP teaches you to get used to your thoughts and get bored with them.
KeepongoingKeepongoing
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“I don’t need to answer that right now”
KeepongoingKeepongoing
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“thanks for that thought”
KeepongoingKeepongoing
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“Lol ok”- sarcastically
ListenToTheWindListenToTheWind
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Sometime I have compassion for it Like ‘thank you, it would be great to have absolutely certainty about that but I am okay with not knowing’
NicaNica
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Practicing mindfulness
IfiknewthenIfiknewthen
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I didnt understand the "maybe, maybe not" thing at first when my therapist brought it up because i wasnt stopping my compulsion. If you stop the compulsion long enough eventually your anxiety will go into remission. You need to know what your primary compulsion is and stop it. And as the anxiety fades you will better understand the "maybe, maybe not thing. You will hear therapists say, "take the C out of OCD and eventually OCD dies.
ListenToTheWindListenToTheWind
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‘Totally! Thanks!’ Eye roll
Robyn🪴🧘🏻♀️🧠Robyn🪴🧘🏻♀️🧠
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I say “it’s possible!” or “okay brain, thanks for that but I’m moving on with my day.”
Will86Will86
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So many great replies!
PubbywomwomPubbywomwom
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@Will86 Yes !!
Will86Will86
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@Loophole02 I love the sassy ones. Im a sarcastic person so they're mu favorites.
PubbywomwomPubbywomwom
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These are all great !! Ty
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- 5w
Sitting w/ uncertainty and your thoughts..then ?
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