Alone
I’m feeling very alone lately, no one to relate to , no one to really understand. I feel like these days it’s so hard to find real friendships that help with how hard life is lately . Sometimes I get so scared that I’m going to end it all one day just out of no where because of how overwhelmed I feel .
I totally understand where you’re coming from. I have a few recommendations that I think will REALLY help you thru this. They’ve certainly helped me. First and foremost, I think it’s extremely important to become your own best friend. Treat yourself like u would treat a good friend: work out every day, go on jogs, take hot showers, read books u enjoy, journal, buy some kickass clothes u look great in. Secondly for me personally a gratefulness journal has changed my life. Every morning write down 5 things you’re grateful for. Go as detailed as u want. Overtime, it’ll change your entire perspective. Thirdly, go on some adventures. Go on a road trip. Travel to some place overseas. Fourthly, keep yourself busy. This on is EXTREMELY important. If u have too much time to think it’ll just get worse. Pick up some new hobbies if u can: go indoor rock climbing, join a running club, get a degree. I 100% agree with you tho, it’s VERY hard to make friends these days. But for me, I’ve adapted, and applied these things, and they’ve changed my life…. I really hope you feel better. Just stay strong, you got this! I hope this helped (even if it was a bit long haha) 👍👊
I feel alone too. I push away my friends but my thoughts and paranoia stop me from wanting to be around anyone. I'm sorry you are having a hard time.
I get the no one to relate to part. its always been so important for me to find someone with similar experiences to me. while being on this app does help that part a little bit, i still feel extremely alone. i have a therapist who i talk to weekly and i STILL get the feeling. i think what helps me pull out of this state is to learn to love myself and to get out of my head so much. i put myself down constantly for being lonely but in reality you are choosing to be lonely, and you can choose to help that part of you
@bouncydog21 I’m definitely not choosing to be lonely lol I try to make friends but they never work out I swear
@Diondru Gotcha, sorry i was kinda talking about situations like myself where its in a depressive standpoint. Then may i suggest going to apps like Bumble and if you are younger then yubo? I know these apps are seen as mainly dating apps but multiple people use these to just find people to talk to and become friends with, theres even a friends tab on bumble so everyone you swipe right with is just looking for friends nothing more. I’m sorry its rocky right now but you’ll find a way i promise.
I feel the same
I’m autistic so I have so much trouble relating to people and making friends. Keeping friends is even worse. On top of that, one of my obsessions is how much people hate me, even when it might not be true, so I always distance myself from people and end up feeling even more alone than ever. I don’t know how to get it to stop. So I understand. I definitely can understand the fear of one day just ending it. Even if you don’t want to? It just becomes that background fear that like oops, your hand might slip and suddenly it’s over? I don’t know. I don’t really have advice. I just know how it feels. 🫂
@mystra This made me cry
Do you have Instagram? We can be friends 😭✨
@weregonnabeokay Yeah sure druskix24
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I feel so alone.
I feel so alone like no one understands me at the moment Ive prayed to God and i believe im doing a decent job in maintaining a relationship with him but i feel so hopeless, and alone. The heart ache i feel is immeasurable .
Who else is battling this Monster alone? I'm really struggling with feeling alone today. I've been divorced for 5 years and I'm scared that I won't be able to find any body to even be close with because of my OCD. I really just need a friend that understands or can relate. The holidays have been extra hard and my therapist is on vacation. My mind is going through a long list of things to latch onto so I am doing exposure. But I'm exhausted, and just feel like I need one of those hugs that makes you feel safe.
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