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Hi there has anyone cured themselves from OCD ? Or close to healed and what have you done or used please ?
Hi there has anyone cured themselves from OCD ? Or close to healed and what have you done or used please ?
There’s no cure. But it can become subclinical meaning no one not even yourself would be able to tell you have it on a day to day. ERP, radical life/self acceptance, LOTS OF THERAPY
There’s no cure for any mental illness but you can absolutely heal and recover and live a happy life. It takes hard work, patience, and dedication to ERP and a full life style change, but it is possible.
Personally I feel OCD like most disorders mental or physical can become a highly manageable disorder. A person can have a good quality of life if they apply themselves with therapy, proper diet, vitamins, exercise and other self-help tools and resources. When I think about the vast majority of any type of conditions nothing is ever 100% completely resolved it is managed.
Hey ocd is not curable, ocd is MANAGEABLE. Once you manage it, it will go away; not because it will stop being there but because it will stop bothering you. I "healed" myself from ocd, (rocd, hocd). Some days tho, i still have to recognise and deal with doubts. But it's not like before, when it makes me so depressed, guilty and sad that i couldn't get out of bed. Now i regain my life, my friends, and i am generally happy with my friends and my studies. And all i did was a mix of a lot of things: 1) LEARNING THE MORE I COULD about ocd, from books, videos etc. The more you know the better. 2) trying differet tecniques to deal with it, like erp, cbt, embracing uncertainty, having some therapy. (Yk sometimes ocd is just screaming that you are scared about something being true, so i used it as an opportunity to know myself better and heal some part of my soul) 3) learning to know myself better and recognise ocd pattern (you'll learn this with experience). But i also understood some wrong beliefs at the base of my ocd thinking (like whith the right boy i should always feel happy etc.) 4) patience. It wont be easy, it wont be fast. But it will be better, i promise
@Saraa You recovered from hocd ?
Some phrases that really helped me with mental compulsions are: *Answering to my intrusive thoughts and questions* "Maybe yes, maybe no." "It could be, or it couldn't. But i cannot know with 100% security, therfore i should embrace uncertainty." "I can't and shouldn't control feelings, therfore they do not define me." "I i can't and shouldn't control toughts, therfore they do not define me." "I am defined by my actions, the only thing that i can control." *Dealing with the discomfort "I acknowledge i did compulsion x, and now i feel discomfort. There's nothing wrong in it. It's a feeling that i can feel." "I allow myself to feel this feeling" "I'll sit through this feeling without doing compulsions." "Feeling do not determine who am i" " Fu*k, i did again compulsion x, now i feel like shit again. Well, now i am also mad. And i allow myself to feel mad, and shitty. Best thing i can do now is sitting trough that. I'll try to not do this compulsion anymore. " "Feeling feelings doesn't mean i agree with it, nor that i disagree. Allowing myself to feel it, doesn't means that i approve or disapprove this feeling. I am just feeling it, and sitting trough it"
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I’m far from cured and honestly, I don’t think there’s ever a real cure. I think OCD is triggered by certain life events or moments in our day. Sometimes it can be less and sometimes it can be completely debilitating. With intrusive thinking, it’s helped me to self-talk and repeat to myself that it’s just thoughts and not reality. What I’m struggling with at the moment is extreme perfectionism. It’s so hard for me to shake even though I tell myself that a lot of my thinking is OCD based. I honestly just try to stay positive and appreciate what I have in my life and keep moving forward. I would greatly benefit from some coping skills though. I’m in search of a new in-person therapist who can help with that.
Thankyou all 💖💖
❤️we all just want it to be over already, but do not set a deadline for your recovery (e.g. "i give myself 3 months to get better") and let yourself go at your own pace ❤️accept that healing is a very, very non-linear process with highs and very dark lows.. it's a lifelong process for us those with ocd, when you stop suffering you start learning ! ❤️WITHOUT ruminating on this, identify the root of your obsessive themes. they hurt so much because they go after your deepest wounds. clearing out the fear or pain that stands at the base of your obsessions will help (e.g. my sexual ocd came as an emotional outlet for my inability to accept a new family member in my life) (e.g. my solipsism ocd came from the deep fear of being alone and abandoned) ❤️the truth will always surface. even if you have no hope anymore and not even asking for reassurance helps, put that last bit of your trust in the other people that are in good states of mind and who are trying to help you. remember that you're living by a distorted mind and if you can't trust your own brain, have trust in others. those who love you are your life net when you're down in the slumps. trust me. ❤️ocd can be caused by chemical imbalance. if you feel like you need it, don't be reluctant to try medication. it's important to have the correct dose and the correct meds. it may change a lot before finally being effective, but it can help A LOT. it was lifesaving for me. (I personally took 125 mg sertraline at 14 years old) ❤️cliche, but the exposure part of erp is in you already. we get exposed to relentless obsessions and terrors already by our minds, our part is the response prevention. throw yourself into the depths of uncertainty and fear by refusing to act upon your compulsions. any learned behavior can be unlearned, our brains are changing! 🧠 it does feel like we can't risk because we can't "know for sure" and we better be safe than sorry, right? well, screw this. unlearn these behavior and live life your own way. ❤️connect with other people with ocd. community is our pillar as humans, especially those communities who share our suffering. ❤️we tend to ask for reassurance a lot and other just reassure us because it's rational to them, not being aware thar it only causes us more pain as we have distoerted thinking. teach your loved ones to respond to your reassurance in a way that doesn't feed the cycle. (e.g. reassurance seeking- "hey, are you ABSOLUTELY SURE that I didn't hit an animal on the way back home??" ❌️wrong response- "no, you didn't, I already told you, I don't remember hearing or seeing anything!" ✅️better response- "I can see you are really distressed right now, why don't we go cook something together/watch a movie/paint together/etc.." ❤️keep your faith close to you. there is something bigger around us that surrounds us with love and takes care of us. even if you don't believe in a god, spirituality goes beyond religion. for me, this higher being was the sky, and everytime I saw the giant clouds I'd tell myself that they felt my emotions and they're watching over in my suffering. strangely enough, this pillar i built in the clouds was strong and really did give me a helping hand. who's to tell these connections we make are not real?
hi guys haven’t posted here in awhile but i’ve fully recovered and have a really good life now lots of friends enjoying school and have a really loving boyfriend who helped me out of my ocd even if he didn’t know he was helping me (just through being loved and supported i felt happy enough to recover) hope u guys can recover too i had severe ocd and basically got better within 2 months by myself :)
Hi guys. Hope everyone is okay I just wanted to ask for some ppl to share how they overcame harm ocd completely so that I can get an idea of how to work towards healing. Thank you :)
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