- Username
- JenniferNSepp
- Date posted
- 1y ago
Off topic of ocd but something is upsetting me.
I went on a date last night and I thought everything was going well. He chatted over drinks for about an hour and a half and he all of a sudden said he doesn't find me physically attractive and he can't pinpoint what it was that he wasn't into. I already had two drinks in me and I started to tear up and cry. I called my friend and cried to her on the phone and he stood over me and watched me cry. I'm 28 and he's 38. I still feel a little hurt and also traumatized in a sense I can't explain it. I understand that not everyone is gonna be attracted to you. But, the way everything seemed fine and just switched is what's upsetting me. I can't get over him saying he doesn't think I'm pretty and the fact that he talked about sex the whole time before that. It makes me petrified to go on other dates now. And as you can well imagine, having ocd makes this situation feel worse :(