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Hocd
Why am I feeling like I’m losing attraction for woman and gaining for men?
Why am I feeling like I’m losing attraction for woman and gaining for men?
I felt the same in the morning, that when I see a pretty girl usually I would get excised but now when I see a guy I notice him more
@Anonymous Same man same. Johnjon stop asking questions ur asking for reassurance. It’s ocd tricking u. We can overcome this inshallah
@Anonymo12 But how do I know if it actually ocd
@JohnJon Ur asking questions, maybe it is maybe it isn’t. Ur looking for reassurance, u doing the same as I was doing. It doesn’t help. Talk to someone. It maybe ocd. Remember, if u don’t like it, it’s likely it’s ocd. I can’t say that for u tho.
@Anonymo12 What is reassurance and I do talk to someone my older sister i don’t know if I like it or na
@JohnJon Have u ever questioned ur sexuality and have u ever been attracted to men before this?
@Anonymo12 Na bro I never attracted to men
@JohnJon Then it’s ocd my friend. Do u do compulsive behaviour, like checking for arousal, groinal response, false attraction, read abt soocd and see what it is and compare urself. And then make an appointment and talk to the gp they will tel u. It’s more likely ocd because u defo don’t like it by the sounds of it
@Anonymo12 I have questioned my sexuality before, not because i was attracted to women in that way (i’m a straight female), but because i was exposed to the idea, like in tv shows and whatnot. I would refrain from watching my fav show because some of the characters were gay and it would be make me question my sexuality constantly. Is this still OCD?
@Rgreen061820 Remember, ocd goes agaisnt ur beliefs and morals. It scares y and makes u fear it.
@Anonymo12 this is me
I don’t know what compulsive behavior and yes I do check my arousal like I watch porn to make sure what I get hard and it from girl and when I search up gay porn I don’t like it feel disgusted
@JohnJon U are at my stage when I first had hocd. I didn’t knw wha it was and I was 15 It then went away for 2 years and came back now. But now for me it’s much Worser. Since u have jus strted getting it. Accept the thought as it is, that means whenever u get a thought, jus say, calm, cool, yes, maybe maybe not. This helps ur brain fight off the fear. If u don’t do this, it’s going to get Worser and u will end up at the point I am, mines gotten so much Worser
@Anonymo12 How do I stay claim and relax you know any tip
@JohnJon Man😭. I remember I had days where I cried. Today I’m doing erp and I still feel some anxiety I fell asleep at 9pm lmao. U ll be able to fight it. We both still young man
@JohnJon Maybe I am, maybe I’m not 🤷🏽♂️. Then sarcastically say ykw Yh I’m gay. It’s easier said than done. Trust me I knw the anxiety I face everyday. Then u ll see anxiety go away a little, and u ll think”oh if I’m not facing anxiety that means I’m gay” that’s called back door spike. At times y won’t knw wha u even like, that’s ocd tricking u. Contact ur gp they ll have more info. Or talk to a ocd specialist
@JohnJon I’m still dealing with it atm. It’s getting Worser for me because I didn’t deal with it at the strt. I’ve been told that mine is ocd. So u need to talk to someone an ocd specialist
Has anyone experienced where you love woman everything about them, even to the point where you still can get erections watching normal porn, lesbian porn etc. but you find your self still admiring a good looking man. I’ve went through the groinal responses when seeing a man but honestly after watching porn and realizing it’s not about sex it went away. On the other hand even when there’s a male and a female in a picture I can’t stop looking at the male and judging, but the minute they’re naked I’m fine and looking at the woman. I started watching porn at a very young age so I’m wondering do I only sexualize woman and admire the man so in everyday life I don’t see her as beautiful because she’s not naked ? I understand as a straight male I can still think guys are attractive but why do I constantly notice them more than women? I also can admire and see when a girl is beautiful in the face but then if a dude that’s more attractive than me pops up in staring at him. Has anyone experience this?
What’s everyone’s experience with loss of attraction to their preferred gender? (Not looking for reassurance, and I know people say stop trying to get it back) When I see a good looking woman, I feel sad that I can’t get feelings like I use too. Like the very bottom of my stomach feels heavy like it’s depressed… I know I want to be attracted to woman but this SOOCD and false attraction is destroying me.
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