LET ME KNOW WHAT YOU THINK.

I agree with this comment. Why does it matter what others think if you're happy and you know that's your best friend and that is the truth. Let people think whatever they want to think.

@Anonymousesti PERIOD. 👏🏾 me and my lesbian bestie of 15 years would be tickled at this.. I understand that most people with different ocd trait than me wouldn’t find this okay, especially if they question their sexuality. But LET THEM THINK WHATEVER. 🥰 they’ll think whatever. You don’t need to worry about people you don’t speak to.

@MelaninMoet I think because of my ocd I’m just unaware of what a friendship should look like, I over think every aspect, I’m afraid if I confront her she will thinks it’s weird because she’s never thought of it like that. She is also bi and sometimes I over think if she if flirting with me. She is also very touchy in the sense she wants hugs all the time and I don’t know if that’s what close friends do. I think I ocd is mainly the feeling of, what if, and being unsure. I have never had a boyfriend so im clueless to the difference between a friendship and a relationship.

@Anonymousesti I always tell myself I shouldn’t care and then I start to overthink…

@Anonymous It happens to the best of us. 🥺wouldn’t be ocd if you didn’t obsessively think about it. You’ll get there. 💕

@Anonymous OH I didn’t read your first response! I apologize. I can understand that though. Not want to bring up something that she probably never thought about. And not gonna lie sometimes people are naturally flirty. I know I can come off that way just because I’m comfortable and I talk like that but now that I know she kinda.. “doesn’t help” the situation. Maybe, when you’re able to, you can come to her about her confusing mannerisms that triggers your disorder.

@Anonymous You never having a relationship could be what the source is. You know that normally, people aren’t always around you, bisexual and possibly very much so flirting with you and it’s giving you a feeling of romance. Do you find her attractive at all? Like.. are you in any way interested in women/men or are you aromantic?

@MelaninMoet She is a very naturally flirty person and I try not to read to much into it, it’s hard sometimes tho. I think I might have to talk to her in the future, I just need to find what to say. Thank you for all your help and support I really appreciate it ❤️❤️

@MelaninMoet Thank you ❤️

@MelaninMoet I have always liked guys and never thought about being in a relation with a girl until someone asked me if I was a lesbian because I’ve never had a boyfriend. I think the reason I’ve never had a boyfriend is because I was alway uncomfortable in my own skin I didn’t want people to get too close to hurt me. I was/am overweight and I think any guy that likes me thinks it’s a joke. Putting down my wall is too scary. I think she is pretty but I don’t see myself in a relationship like that but ocd will say otherwise.

@Anonymous Wow. I really appreciate you taking time to be so vulnerable with me about your situation and it really made me understand you more. her personality speaks for itself. She’s just more comfortable in her own skin. This is definitely something that you should talk to her about. I can understand you thinking that you’re the butt of the joke when it comes to men showing interesting you, but please know that not everybody is as caring about looks or size. You really seem like a considerate sweet person and if you have her being comfortable enough to be around you everyday, I KNOW FOR A FACT you’ll find a lover to feel the same. Absolutely NOTHING is wrong with you. Just learn to fall in love with yourself, in due time, it will happen. And you’re welcome. 💕

@MelaninMoet Thank you so much for taking the time to respond and listen. It’s hard to deal with this by myself. I really needed to hear this. I really need to learn to love myself and become more comfortable in my own skin. Thank you for giving my the hope that I will be able to find someone! ❤️❤️❤️❤️

@Anonymous 🥹 don’t make me cry 💕 you’re so welcome!! You were always going to prevail. Take your time falling in love with you. I know for a fact you’ll expect no less from anyone else. 🫶🏾 have a great day!!