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ROCD Recovery Question!
I am feeling like I am not attracted to my spouse at all and like I need to break it off before we have kids (we’re thinking about it in the next 2 years). I’m worried I’ll keep feeling ROCD relapses when we have kids and that would be hell to deal with both that and raising kids. I’m wondering whether I would actually feel relationship uncertainty and anxiety as much with someone I’m more naturally attracted to. If you’ve had similar break up urges, how do you know what you truly want and make values based decisions? How do you ride the wave during a particularly bad doubt storm, where you feel none of the positive emotions you felt before? Has anyone had ROCD with kids and can give advice or share experiences?