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what is the gist of erp therapy?
therapy isn’t super accessible to me rn and i’m wanting to start practicing erp on my own the best i can. how can i start?
therapy isn’t super accessible to me rn and i’m wanting to start practicing erp on my own the best i can. how can i start?
The gist of ERP is setting aside time to purposely expose yourself to thoughts or experiences that trigger you and then to not do any compulsions (physical or mental) and simply wait for the anxiety/stress to pass without doing anything. Hence you expose yourself and then prevent your self from having a response to it. To start, it’s usually best to make a list of exposures and list them from least (anxeity etc) to most and work your way from easy to hard. It’s also best to practice everyday
I have found ERP does work. Nathan Peterson posts good videos about ocd. Here is one I found helpful https://m.youtube.com/watch?list=UU3ClvnrcrC-3wr27fz_HlIQ&v=ks44nEG6R8Y&feature=youtu.be It takes work but it is worth it. One erp thing for me was when I would park the car and got out I was over concerned my car door hit the car next to me. My erp was to go park next to a car get out and walk to the back of the car then get back in and drive off without seeing if my car door hit the car. I did that again, again and again now it really isn’t nearly an issue as it was before. The anxiety would be there and I would let it go down on its own with doing the compulsion to look if I did hit the car.
I read about ERP and have seen information about it on here. One of the goals is to say, "maybe I am this or that...ect." That terrified me. The thoughts and images that go in my head are disturbing and upsetting. I don't want to even think about saying, "maybe this or that." It's devasting to have these thoughts and question why you're having these thoughts. Doesn't the "maybe" make it worse? The one thing that helps me is that is to remind myself that these are just thoughts and I know I'm not a monster, even if I feel like one. Is ERP not for everyone? Has anyone else had a problem with the techniques used in this kind of therapy? I had cognitive therapy for years with an OCD specialist and that seemed to help a lot. Writing out the worst case scenarios would make me suicidal. Im having a difficult time not obsessing over the "maybe" after intrusive thoughts now. It doesn't make it better.
It could be possible to treat a severe scrupulosity OCD without taking medication and asking guidance from the psychiatrist? I can't afford for professional consultation 🥹. Can anybody give me some advices on how to deal with these intrusive thoughts? 🙏
Has anyone else struggled with compulsions around using ERP itself? It creeped in subtly, but I’ve noticed myself now starting to repeat phrases/mantras before I try to do exposures. Ironically, that itself has become a compulsion. It’s wild, how do you get a compulsion about not doing compulsions 🤯 It honestly probably got this way and doesn’t help that I haven’t been able to access therapy in over 3 yrs. So as I’ve tried to use ERP on my own without professional support, it just kind of morphed into this. Well I should be able to access services again in January. I suppose it’s not that far away anymore at this point, 4 months. Grateful for that at least.
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