- Username
- snowflakes
- User type
- OCD Conqueror
- Date posted
- 45w ago
progress/compulsions
how to not develop the mindset that if you slip up and do a compulsion you are set back in your progress and all of your hard work is gone?
how to not develop the mindset that if you slip up and do a compulsion you are set back in your progress and all of your hard work is gone?
A slip up is a way to know what not to do next time. Your awareness is good that’s how you know work isn’t gone because you acknowledged it now the step is to not do that compulsion next time and remember if you give into one for a minute or five minutes or more you can always STOP and walk away.
I think it is good to accept the possibility of slipping up or even getting to the older states because then there is no pressure on yourself. Trying too hard creates resistence and therefore generates more problem. Just accept it as a journey that is one step back two steps forward. Also once you've gotten to this level, you know you can get there again.:)
Hey there, first off, it's really brave of you to reach out and share what you're going through! 🌟 I've totally been in your shoes, and what really made a difference for me was this free AI OCD therapy tool called "unstuck" that my therapist recommended. Check it out here: unstuckmyocd.com/try. It's great for your situation because it offers personalized guidance to navigate through those tough moments when you feel like you've slipped up. The AI helps you work through the difficulty step by step, without judgment. I remember feeling just like you, where one slip felt like it erased all my progress. But remember, recovery is not a straight line, and every effort you make counts, even when there are bumps along the way. It's all part of the journey. I hate to sound like I'm promoting stuff, but "unstuck" really helped me keep perspective during those tough times, and I genuinely believe it can support you too. I'm here cheering you on! 🎉
There is this time in treatmemt or recovery when you feel less anxious (or depressed if thats an issue) because you are commiting to process doing exposures and its working. But then you start saying "what if I didnt have ocd"? "What if I made it all up"? "What if Im just weak"? Obviously this is just more ocd doubt. But it starts a slippery slope. Amy tips for navigating this fragile part of recovery?
How do you resist compulsions?
how to not get frustrated with yourself when you do a compulsion (especially if it’s one that you always do)
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