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Sad feelings around my loved ones… please help!
I keep getting sad out of the blue… when im around my loved ones… really sad sometimes… i don’t know why… hate it
I keep getting sad out of the blue… when im around my loved ones… really sad sometimes… i don’t know why… hate it
Totally get it, we often get those feelings when we care too much about our loved ones and their wellbeing, there’s absolutely nothing wrong in that. We need to understand that we often cannot control how we feel especially when OCD stands in the way, feelings due to OCD are just largely automatic, and they come and go without we willingly having control over them, understanding that feelings and thoughts are not always rational, and feelings are not “facts” can help a bit to keep things in perspective in the long run, hope it helps somewhat!
@UH52 But why do i get so saaad without knowing why.. and always when i should be happy around my loved ones
@Strugglezz Yeah I can definitely relate too, mostly it might be because we care for their wellbeing too much, like for me personally getting to a point having severe separation anxieties when my loved ones go out, so for you also maybe it might be due to the immense care and love we have towards them, so we might get consumed in the moment we are with them thus indirectly paving way for OCD thoughts to flood in!
I’ve been feeling the same lately. Pretty sure its depression. I’ve never had lows like I’ve recently experienced. You’re not alone . Hope you feel better soon
the thoughts that have been making me super anxious recently is every-time I’m around someone im happy with my mind is like “they will miss you” or “they will wonder why you did it when your always happy” it’s eating me i hate it. i’m tired of this theme, it’s been on and off for three years. but it makes me more anxious now the it does before. please share tips
I usually would say I’ve never been depressed , but recently in my life since my anxiety/ocd has been so bad and having relationship problems I’m feeling kinda sad / stressed. I keep getting scared of being depressed I keep having intrusive thoughts of “ you’d would be better off if you weren’t living” “ I don’t wanna live if it’s like this” and it’s just scaring me 😞
Help please? I just feel idk..help ..
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