I had a dream that I liked this boy and I’m a girl is it a good sign that’s I’m straight but when I woke up I started to get thoughts about girls and they feel real they deal that I like girls and I don’t want to
You can like both if you want. It fine to be fluid in your feelings that why they are feelings
@Anonumanonymous Nooo I don’t like girls I’ve never liked them
@Anonumanonymous It’s no ok in my religion is forbidden you can’t be Muslim and I’m trying my best to not think about girls
@Anonymous But the thought just pops in I’ve never liked girls ok
@Anonumanonymous Do u even know what ocd is
great job triggering him dude
@Anonymous - before hocd did you ever have these feelings about girls?
@Anonymous No
@Anonymous Also you have to remember that you're not alone in this kind of thinking. I'm sure there are plenty of people who have the same thoughts as you who are still true to their religion.
Maybe you should do a little bit more research on that kind of stuff. Like people from the same gender and things like that. But I feel like a lot of people think about different "sins" but they don't do them.I think that's what makes the difference. I personally believe in liking whoever you want to but if you're not really into that kind of thing then that's okay. Just be kind to yourself during this time and don't be so hard on yourself. When you give too much energy or mental power to something it can end up consuming you. And the harsher you might be on yourself over a simple decision. Remember you're in control there's no reason to make such a harsh correction. If you feel like you actually do might like girls and you're okay with that at some point then that's okay. And if you decide that that's not a thought that you want to entertain then that's okay too.
@Anonumanonymous I don’t like girls I’ve never had that dealing I’ve always liked boys I’ve had so many crushes on boys I’ve had ocd since Covid okey and u can’t make my life worse I’m already scared but I know for fact I don’t like girls
@Anonymous Hey I have ocd too and in the past I’ve had similar thoughts but I know I like males and not girls, so I would worry for a bit why I would have certain thoughts, but after awhile I would think “well I know I like boys so that’s that” and eventually I would stop thinking about it then I wouldn’t worry anymore
Oh ok some people have had gay experiences in their childhood and they are still straight
I’m scared I want to stay straight I don’t like girls
My guess is youre probably performing some type of compulsion/ritual to ease your anxiety over the issue. Maybe googling stuff, looking at certain material, performing religious rituals, etc. Stop it stop it stop it! Empirical evidence shows when you stop the respone (response prevention), over time the anxiety will fade. Exposure may be all around you. Just stop the response.
Like I can’t think straight. This is making me doubt everything I’ve thought about myself and even makes me feel like I like the thoughts when I know I don’t. Like I would be less anxious at a time while I still have the thoughts and my mind would go “oh so you like it you must be gay” or the other one where I’m not anxious and I think of my attraction for girls that I’ve had my whole life and my mind goes “see now you’re not into them you’re gay” like it’s so stupid but so effective. I clearly remember being into girls my whole life but my mind is making me believe that all these attractions and feelings for women were all fake or “a thing of the past”. But I can still get aroused by women but I have this weird anxiety going on which brings these sensations/feelings and it’s so weird. Today I’ve spent my whole day thinking about it like I’ve been doing for 5 months now. I know that this aint normal but my mind just won’t let me live in peace. I never cared about my sexuality cuz I simply liked women my whole life but now my sexuality is a fundamental philosophy. I hate this.
I don’t know what to do anymore, this started nearly a year ago and caused so much stress and panic attacks over the thought of loosing my boyfriend. Now it just feels real and that he always liked girls and suppressed it (but like the boys i always liked in the past were real feelings they had to be and with my boyfriend i love him) but i haven’t got much anxiety now feels like i want the thoughts and that they don’t bother me even tho they used to, this seems to happen every time i get a lil better, idk just feels so true and that’s what i acc want with no stress, just a lil scared.
I know people say ocd can manifest in your dreams. I had a semi sexual dream, in that there was a naked woman and I enjoyed the dream so surely that can't be ocd. Idk this shit is annoying.
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