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- 51w ago
I hate my job so bad. Anyone else w similar exp?
Hi. I have been grateful and patient for a long time but I had to call off because I can’t even stand going in. Would like to hear anyone’s experience.
Hi. I have been grateful and patient for a long time but I had to call off because I can’t even stand going in. Would like to hear anyone’s experience.
Jobs are hard to come by. Try to hang in there . Do your best even though and perhaps quietly look for another job . If you do leave at some point it is is preferable to leave on a good note and get a good reference.
@777Q They are and trust me I’ve been patient for a year and a half. I was looking for other work. I’m on unemployment and have wiggle room to seek peace from this current job I have. It is toxic and we all have our limits. I’ve been settling.
Hi, I got laid off from my previous job and I miss it dearly. My current job is another interim job until I get a job with my college degree. For the last few weeks I have got 0 hours per week! There is also no union. It's not right to give no hours a week. I didn't do anything wrong besides calling in sick when I was actually sick and I did that only 2 days. I am actively searching for a other job. If your job is toxic, leave. I had experience with that at my first job and it's not good for your mental health. Wish you well :)
@Anonymous I’m so sorry to hear. That’s strange to get 0 hours. You can’t talk to HR? My job is toxic. I’m a lead and all the other leads have permanent stands and make tips. They took me out of mine and have me everywhere. I’m losing money and they are violating my seniority rights. I work at the big bar and do so much for 12 bartenders and they rarely tip. No obligation but a slap to the face. I also have first priority to switch positions and they are making excuses because they are short staffed. I’m losing lots of money and taking crazy advantage of me by moving me everywhere which is more work and later hours.
@Mooooni Do you have a union? I once tried to find HR and I couldn’t. Pathetic company but great to shop at
@Anonymous Yes I went to the union and even followed up. I heard they suck though lol. I’m losing money this weekend but I need a damn break. I’m so sorry again for your experience. Is there anything else you can do?
@Mooooni - Hi, I am just looking for another job. Even my mom said you can't depend on this job. They obviously don't care about us even though they pretend they do. Greedy company. It makes me miss my old job even more which had a union. My current job is so anti-union...gee, I wonder why? If you are looking for jobs even NOCD may be hiring, if you are eligible you can look. I heard government jobs are aplenty too. Best wishes
Yeah my job sucks too. Let’s quick together hahaha
I’ve recently become unemployed and the journey to finding a new job is honestly unbearable. I struggle with a major lack of self confidence and I don’t believe I’m good at anything nor smart enough for it, so whenever I look at job websites and see different things advertised I panic. Even with what I’ve wanted to do for years, the thought of going out and doing that makes me feel horrendous because I don’t think I’m capable of doing it. And what doesn’t help is the fact I’ve told my parents this and they just scream at me saying I can’t sit around doing nothing every day when that’s already something I don’t want to do. I want a job, I want to do something I enjoy, I like working I do, and once I’m it in I know I’ll enjoy it, but there’s certain things stopping me from going for it. I hate myself over every possible level to the thought of people seeing me everyday is making me panic, I don’t think I’m very intelligent so anything that requires me to do maths or organise numbers or anything like that is out of the question. I’ve worked in hospitality for 7 years, doing shit I despise and I honestly have hated every moment of it so I can’t go back there. It’s all scaring me, all making me feel like I’m just incapable of doing anything right, I genuinely just don’t even want to wake up tomorrow because the thought of living this life for the rest of my life is ridiculous. I don’t want to do it. I don’t have anything I’m good at, there’s nothing I enjoy what the hell am I meant to do with that? I’m honestly so stuck. Everyone keeps saying “beggars can’t be choosers” but this is my fucjing life and I have to do a shit job that makes me want to throw myself off a 30 story building till I’m 70? Fuck no. What kind of life is that? Just so I can make money? And afford bills? And pay to live? wtf I don’t even want to be here so why am I doing that. I don’t enjoy living I a really fucking hate it. And working down the local grocery store is just not gonna make me wanna be here any longer. I really hate it here and now I have to find a job that I’ll hate? I’m so stuck
I’ve been struggling with this for the part year and it’s been horrible I hate my life and I feel like nothing works , please help or feel free to share tips or your own story
I think I’m going through the hardest depression right now. I’ve never felt so compelled to just stop getting up and stop living. I know it’s hard to hear, I just really feel bad. Right now I even feel like an attention seeker. I just wanted to know, are there any tips to raise me from this hole im in? Has anyone else felt like this an pulled themselves out?
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