Lalee
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- 1y
Is this a compulsion
Is making a plan how you will tell your partner it’s over a compulsion?
Hopeful29Hopeful29
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If you feel relif maybe is a compulsion
girlanongirlanon
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- OCD Conqueror
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I think it depends. If you're making a plan to be prepared and safe, and feel satisfied with a plan, I'd say no. But if you're going in circles trying to figure out the right thing to do and feeling unsatisfied, then I'd say yes
tbac4365tbac4365
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If you no longer have feelings for that person then maybe it’s not a compulsion but the truth .
tbac4365tbac4365
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@Ilovemyhusband0322. Was that directed at me ?
tbac4365tbac4365
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@Ilovemyhusband0322. Thought I was trying to help , but seeing as you know so much why don’t you steer her in the right direction instead of just being a troublemaker .
tbac4365tbac4365
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@Ilovemyhusband0322. Be more mindful after you telling me my OCD is nothing and I’m a troll , for making one comment which I think isn’t as bad as you’re making out . You really are a work of art , I thought everyone with OCD was equal not a mines more important than your one approach .
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tbac4365tbac4365
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@Ilovemyhusband0322. It’s called divorce look it up , lots of people do it when they no longer have feelings for each other .
tbac4365tbac4365
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@Ilovemyhusband0322. I never said that you just wake up one day and have no feelings for someone , that’s what you’ve come up with .
tbac4365tbac4365
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@Ilovemyhusband0322. I didn’t particularly want to argue but you left me no choice , after your rant at me . Also pretty much saying I’m lying about my OCD , and I’m the one who should be more mindful can’t you see how hypocritical you sound .
tbac4365tbac4365
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@Ilovemyhusband0322. I can assure you that when I commented on the post the last thing I wanted to do was offend or trigger her , it certainly wasn’t my intention . I don’t want to fall out with you either , we’re going through enough without ripping strips off each other . I respect you for defending her but you didn’t need to , my intentions were 💯 honourable .
tbac4365tbac4365
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@Ilovemyhusband0322. Likewise , I’ll have your back too . You take care and have an amazing weekend .
LaleeLalee
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@Ilovemyhusband0322. Glad this ended with love 🙏🏻
LaleeLalee
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@Ilovemyhusband0322. Glad this ended with love 🙏🏻
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