Boyfriend moving

My bf and I are gonna have to be long distance for 2 months and tonights the first night. I’m so anxious and I’m scared he’s going to leave me or cheat on me. What if he realizes he could be happier without me? What if he realizes there’s really nothing special about me? What if I don’t bring value to his life? What if somebody at his new job starts being sexual towards him? I cant do anything from 4 hours away I have no control and no certainty

Username: StaleverseStaleverse

Date posted: 25w ago

As a person who did long distance for 2+ years with my girlfriend those feelings are 100% valid and totally understandable for someone who’s about to do long distance. I had the same fears and thoughts but it all comes down to how much trust you have in you’re relationship as well as you’re partner. I obviously don’t know yall personally so it’s hard to evaluate but I wouldn’t let those thoughts absorb you and that is hard but I think if you have some real trust in that person you can absolutely make it work.

Username: Anonymous243Anonymous243

Date posted: 25w ago

@Staleverse Thank you for the kind words. I agree with you. I trust him but rocd usually gets in the way :/

Username: LgpucLgpuc

User type: OCD Conqueror

Date posted: 25w ago

It’s very normal to be a little anxious about this. Make sure you check in with yourself though, if your thoughts/worries seem incessant or magical this is OCD territory. Relationships are especially uncertain because there’s two entirely different people involved, but that’s just the nature of love.

Username: Anonymous243Anonymous243

Date posted: 25w ago

@Lgpuc That’s true. I think ocd just gets in the way a lot:/ thank you for commenting ❤️

Username: aholcomb17

Date posted: 5y ago

I’m super anxious and scared my bf is gonna dump me Bc he said “love you” instead of I love you and he barely txted me yesterday and left me on read for a few and he’s broken up with me b4 and the day b4 he did he said we were fine and he said we were fine yesterday and I’m scared

Relationship OCD

Username: Anonymous

Date posted: 2y ago

My bf or should I say my not fucking bf, got into a fight a week ago and we didn’t speak for the last 2 days and he said we were on a break. He says we’re not together right now. That I could do whatever I want but it’d still hurt the same but he knows I’m not gonna do anything & he isn’t gonna do anything. But it’s the mere fact that he labels the break almosf like a break up because it wouldn’t be considered cheating if one of us did something. He’s going to San Diego this weekend with his friends and I’m not gonna lie I wasn’t worried before but now that I know there’s that little bit of room to do shit, makes me scared he’ll even just flirt with girls. It really scares me cuz I’ll never know & I don’t like it. We are talking about everything on Monday & most likely gonna get “back together”. He says it’s simple on his end where it’s a little short break from the relationship as in talking every day and doing relationship stuff, and then he comes back and we’ll talk. And I hate it. So much. It makes it hard to not over think and worry.

Username: Anonymously2

Date posted: 1y ago

Scared. Help me

I’m so scared. Tonight my boyfriend is going to a party with my friends. I’m so scared he will like my friend and will impress her or something or will like her more than me. Because before we dated he said she was pretty. We met on a dating platform so that’s where I know him from. We’re together now for 5 months and he is going to meet my friend tonight for the first time. My other friends has he already met. But I’m also jealous of her sometimes because a lot of guys think she’s pretty and look at her when we’re going out. So I’m scared he will think she’s pretty or like her or something. I’m so sad about it and scared. Can anybody help me ?

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