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It tackles my symptoms directly. CBT is helpful with certain aspects of anxiety and negative thought partners, but ERP has gotten right to the source of my struggles and gave me a way to deal with them.
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Love it.. thanks for sharing!
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Having tools to face things, response prevention instead of avoidance.
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Exactly!
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@HeartMama YES! Response prevention messages helped me so much with my OCD! They help to break the cycle!!
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Once you get comfortable with embracing ERP, it starts to become a habit you can employ on the go. It has enabled me to learn to deal with intrusive thoughts relatively quickly, where as before I would have had that thought stuck in my head all day ! And would have until I sought reassurance, only to have it come back even stronger. It’s a constant work to keep it up, but it has enabled me to even taper down off my meds
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Awesome to hear!! Thanks for sharing!
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@Joe Carboni Exactly! You become your own ERP therapist! 💪🏻
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Lasting results
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I agree!!
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That's good to hear. I'm at 4 sessions and still a bit confused. I find it's mostly real life stuff that triggers me. I have a few themes but mostly psych ocd and rocd
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@Misstama65 There's definitely a learning curve to it as it's counterintuitive to ocd brains
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@Wolfram Well... I've started the exposures with a therepist but we never really talked about my compulsions much so I tend to realize I'm doing them after the fact... If that makes sense
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@Misstama65 How do they know what reaction you're trying to prevent?
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@Wolfram That's where I'm confused a bit I guess. We haven't talked much about it.
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@Wolfram We just kind of started off with talking about my fears and doing exposures to them. We did identify some compulsions I guess. My homework is to not do them
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@Misstama65 Bring it up with them next session. The content of the thoughts or compulsions don't ultimately matter but if you think it'll help, there's no harm in mentioning.
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@Wolfram I will. Thanks
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@Misstama65 In session, before the exposure you can and should be identifying what compulsions may come up during that exposure! For example, if I’m reading a script I wrote about the worst case scenario with my ROCD, I might know that the mental compulsions are going to be to tell myself 1. This isn’t real 2. This won’t happen. Knowing and identifying with my therapist possible compulsions that may come up helps to recognize them during the exposure and then do something else! Tell your therapist that you want to identify possible compulsions prior to starting the exposure!
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@NOCD Therapist - Melanie D. I don't think we did that
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Accepting the discomfort and learning to live with it, generally gets easier each time
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Yep agreed.. getting comfortable in the uncomfortable
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The inner voice and critic is less loud and has lost some power
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You're stronger than your OCD!!
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ERP makes you become a much more resilient person! Facing your fears is such hard work, but when you keep up with it, those fears don’t have much power over you anymore. And you don’t have as much of a fear response when new intrusive thoughts/ feelings/ urges/ images come up! 😊
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Love this Haley! Resilience is huge!
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dealing with a problem head on instead of finding ways to rationalize something and avoid it under the guise of working with it
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Yes.. avoidance never worked for me!!
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Definitely actual results instead of useless talk therapy
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Talk therapy never worked for my OCD so I agree.. ERP is the way to go!
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It actually works
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YES!
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ERP is like a removing a very painful big mantel sprinter. It is very hard and stressful and feels like you are torturing yourself. But it works and the relief you get afterwards as you’re ocd is no longer torturing you very minute of the day,I have not word that could describe how much better my life is after treating my ocd. ERP is worth it, it is hard but it works. I would recommend ERP to others with ocd.
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"it is hard but it works" >>>
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ERP has not only helped my OCD, but my depression and anxiety as well. I have been able to apply the ERP concepts to other parts of my life and I have seen an overall wellness in my mental health, not just OCD. I am much more mindful and aware.
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LOVE this. Important to remember that ERP is extremely useful in OCD but also other things too!
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Things I’ve done: CBT therapy 12 step programs Coping skills (that turned into compulsions) : gratitude journaling, prayer, meditation, running (big time). Quit caffeine entirely, became a vegetarian- you name it, ive tried it in the name of “getting better”. I really thought that if I just kept at these things every single day I’d start to get better. In three months of ERP, I feel like a different person. Things are still hard, and I still feel like a piece of shit human being most of the time- but it’s getting easier
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Doesnt make my ocd worse like talk therapy.
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Agreed!
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ERP provides a structured and targeted approach to my intrusive thoughts and a gradual, effective approach to stopping compulsions. It counters the smoke and mirrors of OCD’s entanglement with the simple, grounded wisdom of face your fears and learn you can handle discomfort. I’m very grateful for it and this community
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Thank you for sharing this - beautifully said!
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Understanding and acceptance of triggers, even if they sound like something someone can easily move on from.
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I'm genuinely very excited for you! 💪🏻
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@Anonymous Awesome! Just trust the process 💖🙏🏻
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@Anonymous Sending prayers 🙏🏻
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@Anonymous I thought the same thing for myself when I started. I actually thought it was impossible. I thought that this will work for other people but I'm much worse and my thoughts are different than everyone so this won't work for me. (I'm telling you this as I just came back from having a great time playing tennis for 2 hrs 💪🏻☺️)
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@Anonymous Thank you. We're all here to help each other ☺️
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What exactly does ERP consist of ?
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Whoever flagged/deleted my comment because I used the word “demonic” — I hope you’re proud of yourself. I have since deleted all comments from this thread because I don’t appreciate censorship and I said people with demonic thoughts
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@Anonymous need the most prayer. Nothing to censor there.
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It addresses the anxiety/scary feeling part.
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I read about ERP and have seen information about it on here. One of the goals is to say, "maybe I am this or that...ect." That terrified me. The thoughts and images that go in my head are disturbing and upsetting. I don't want to even think about saying, "maybe this or that." It's devasting to have these thoughts and question why you're having these thoughts. Doesn't the "maybe" make it worse? The one thing that helps me is that is to remind myself that these are just thoughts and I know I'm not a monster, even if I feel like one. Is ERP not for everyone? Has anyone else had a problem with the techniques used in this kind of therapy? I had cognitive therapy for years with an OCD specialist and that seemed to help a lot. Writing out the worst case scenarios would make me suicidal. Im having a difficult time not obsessing over the "maybe" after intrusive thoughts now. It doesn't make it better.
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Anyone else feel like they just sit there during sessions? Like I can’t wait for it to be over so I don’t have to do this twice a week anymore. I think I’m putting in effort but sometimes feels like a huge waste of time and I’m not making progress but maybe that’s just my ocd?
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I'm trying to get my head around ERP. What is the best way to describe how it's a "solution." Imo I think OCD happens with people who are very concerned with their own genuine integrity and probably their own "morality." So when something (like an uncomfortable "real event" that actually happened) messes that up, it's hard to grapple with that...hence the endless rumination and trying to "problem solve" it. But the mind doesn't let you sleep (i.e. OCD) if something is controversial and doesn't sit with you. Or if you obsess over something and it's based on a rooted fear. You just can't "let it go," it has to be addressed and dealt with. But what happens when it is NEVER dealt with? How does ERP address that dilemma as a permanent solution? Or does ERP only address compulsions and anxiety, but it doesn't actually deal with the issue causing it. Do you ever get REAL peace of mind? Or is just something to make you feel "less anxious" etc? Thanks I just want peace of mind. I haven't had true peace of mind in several years.
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