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Contamination OCD
Does anyone have any tips on how to handle contamination OCD?
Does anyone have any tips on how to handle contamination OCD?
Contamination OCD, like any form of OCD, is best managed by not giving in to compulsions. For example, if you feel the urge to wash your hands after touching a doorknob, you can start by touching it for a few seconds and delaying washing for a set amount of time, like 5 minutes. Over time, you can gradually increase that delay. It’s important to start small and build up your tolerance to the discomfort. Contamination OCD can be a tough theme to deal with, are you currently seeing a therapist for your OCD?
@AnonymityK Thanks for your advice! Unfortunately I am not seeing a therapist. I know I should, but I’m not. I come up with all excuse in the book to not see one. I guess I’m just afraid to. 😒
@S. L. - I totally get that—I was the same way. I dealt with my OCD alone for months, coming up with every excuse not to see a therapist. When I finally found the courage to ask for help, it was still scary, and those first sessions were tough. But as time went on, I realized I should have done it a long time ago. OCD loves to come up with reasons to avoid the very thing that could help, and fear makes it even harder. But you don’t have to go through this alone. Whenever you feel ready, I truly think it could be beneficial. A therapist who understands OCD can make such a difference!
@AnonymityK You’re absolutely right! Will definitely take that into consideration.
@S. L. - Glad to hear that! Take your time with it, and remember that every small step counts. :)
Routines can help :) Apart from gradually delaying any cleaning, sticking to a schedule can help so much. For example, if you’re the type who showers compulsively, allow yourself to shower once in the morning and once at night. Whatever happens between then, just do your best to wait until the next shower. Brushing your teeth? Brush in the morning, after lunch, and at night. Limit anything between those set times. Some other examples: Laundry: If you feel the need to wash clothes frequently due to contamination fears, set specific days for doing laundry. For example, wash clothes Monday, Wednesday, Friday only. Then gradually reduce to two days like Tuesday and Thursday. Eventually trying to go down to one day of the week. Eating Out: If eating food from outside feels unsafe, create a routine where you allow yourself to eat takeout once a week. Stick to that schedule, and gradually challenge yourself to two times. The key is to gradually change the number of times you do something, allowing your anxiety to become more manageable over time. I hope that helps some.
@issphra 🫶🏻 That does help. Totally makes sense. Thanks for the tips! 😊
Hi S.L.! I read your post- I'm a therapist and I've seen how difficult it can be to make the choice to begin therapy. Since growth never happens in the comfort zone, it's the challenges we face that help us improve our lives. NOCD therapists will never judge you, if that is your fear. We work with all sorts of OCD presentations and have seen it all. AnonymityK responded to you and really summed up what happens in treatment. A therapist can help you build up tolerance for uncomfortable thoughts. We also emphasize accepting uncertainty. If you have any questions about therapy, I'm happy to speak with you. You can reach me or another NOCD therapist through the care team at treatmyocd.com. Take care and reach out when you are ready!
@Donna Simons Thank you for responding.
Hello, Thank you for reaching out. Before I say anything else, let me unequivocally state, "IMPROVEMENT IS POSSIBLE"! The next question is how to achieve this? The only therapeutic way to defeat Contamination OCD is through a technique called "Exposure Response Prevention" (ERP). This is where you expose yourself to the situation you fear and then prevent yourself from performing your usual response. For example, if you have contamination OCD. If you view a trash can as contaminated and therefore, if you happen to touch a trash can you wash your hands for an inordinate amount of time. So ERP would have you touch a trash can and then NOT wash your hands. You will feel a tremendous amount of anxiety and discomfort. But after sitting with this anxiety and discomfort for some time (say,5, 10, 20 minutes) your anxiety will go down and you will be able to move on with your day. This will teach two important lessons. 1) You can handle more anxiety than you thought as evidenced by being able to avoid washing your hands. 2) The feared situation of touching a contaminated object was not as bad as you thought it would be. For ERP to be successful it is important that you do this work with a therapist. Together, the two of you could create exposures that get more challenging as you progress in your treatment. By targeting the compulsion (for instance, hand washing) and eliminating it, you can indeed, conquer your OCD and be able to live a fuller life as you engage in activities that you never thought possible. One brief but inspiring example is a member I know who used to wash his hands with soap and water very intensely after urinating. He would scrub his hands intensely with soap and then wash under every single finger nail. This was very time consuming and draining and caused going to the bathroom to be a stressful ordeal. However, after attending therapy and doing ERP, he is now able to urinate and then quickly wash his hands WITHOUT soap and WITHOUT washing under every single nail. This is something that would have been unthinkable ten years ago. Thank G-d, he has made tremendous progress and is just one of many examples of people who have overcome their OCD.
@Noah Pollack Thanks for replying back. Will definitely take your information & put it to good use. Thanks also for sharing your story.
Short answer - ERP therapy
Does anyone have any tips that helped them? Mine is due to a specific person and I work with them so it’s been really difficult. I’ve started ERP which has been reaaalllllly challenging and I would love to hear from anyone else that has gone through any type of contamination ocd and how they have overcome or are fighting their way through it. Thank you!l
Hello! I’m new here. Unfortunately I’m not able to afford a therapist but I’ve been doing a lot of research and I think a lot of my symptoms/thoughts align with OCD. I want to share some of what I experience and see if anyone else experiences the same and what resources helped you. I think I mostly experience contamination OCD. I’m constantly worried that something I do/touch is going to make me really sick and/or die. Especially with food, I’m constantly worried that I’ll accidentally have something on my hands when I eat, then I’ll touch the food and get that on the food, eat it and get sick. So I’ll wash my hands every time my hands touch any little tiny thing again and again before I eat, same with any forks/spoons, or I’ll even think I touched cleaner a few hours ago and I’ve washed my hands several times since then and I just washed them again but they still feel dirty so even if impractical I’ll use a fork and if my hands touch the part of the fork that touches the food then I can’t eat the food any longer or use that fork. Also at work I have these thoughts that I know are ridiculous but also give me very real anxiety. Like “if I don’t finish this order before that machine beeps its a sign I’m going to die” and then I have to rush to make sure I finish fast and then I’ll be like ok that’s so stressful I’m not going to think like that any more it’s ridiculous but then the thoughts keep coming back so I have to keep rushing. This is just a little tad bit of what I experience and I would love to hear from others as I haven’t met anyone else like me before. Thank you!
Hi all, I’m new here and just recently got diagnosed. I’m trying to make sense of a lot of things and could use some perspective. I feel like I’m the only one who has contamination themes and does not have the compulsion to clean things, but rather to run away from the mess. I would really love to hear from someone who can relate, because right now I feel like I’m making it up. Details which might either be useful or triggering: My kitchen is the best example. I might leave a dish or two in the sink and say “I’ll clean it up soon, it’s no big deal.” But then—because of a combination of factors—it will probably sit there for a couple days. Around day 2 or 3 I develop an aversion to dealing with it. It gives me ick. And the longer it sits, the ickier it becomes—realistically and in my imagination. And because I’ve stopped doing dishes, they really start to pile up, and each day, getting started feels like more work and more confrontation with disgust. I will start thinking about how I need to do dishes, or take out the trash, and then get hit with a horrifying mental image of bugs (I’ll spare you the details) or other really disgusting things happening. That image brings me shame and makes me scared to deal with the mess. When it really piles up, I start getting images of the nastiest hoarders’ houses I’ve ever seen, and I start catastrophizing about the future I’m doomed for. So mostly I just watch tv to get my mind off it. (I swear I’m not just lazy 😔) This is true for food too. I will be unsure if something in my fridge is a little too old, so I decided to hedge my bets and I avoid it. I let a lot of food go to waste this way. The biggest problem here is I don’t throw it away when I decide it’s bad. I just side-eye it. Maybe because I know it’s silly to decide 6-day-old soy milk that smells fine has a “bad vibe,” and I think I may be able to get over it later. But then the food actually spoils and I don’t want to touch it to throw it out. I actually had a week or so in June where I couldn’t open the fridge because it smelled bad. It took every ounce of emotional energy and an external deadline to force me to clean my kitchen. I had a couple of meltdowns but it felt great to get my space back. Of course, it’s a cycle and it got bad again. The crazy thing is, I love to cook and I even like doing dishes. And I do dishes every day at work, no problem! But I’m spending so much money on takeout because my kitchen is always trashed. :( Is this super crazy? Does it even sound like contamination ocd? Am I alone in this? Any feedback would be helpful.
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