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Contamination OCD
Does anyone have any tips on how to handle contamination OCD?
Does anyone have any tips on how to handle contamination OCD?
Contamination OCD, like any form of OCD, is best managed by not giving in to compulsions. For example, if you feel the urge to wash your hands after touching a doorknob, you can start by touching it for a few seconds and delaying washing for a set amount of time, like 5 minutes. Over time, you can gradually increase that delay. It’s important to start small and build up your tolerance to the discomfort. Contamination OCD can be a tough theme to deal with, are you currently seeing a therapist for your OCD?
@AnonymityK Thanks for your advice! Unfortunately I am not seeing a therapist. I know I should, but I’m not. I come up with all excuse in the book to not see one. I guess I’m just afraid to. 😒
@S. L. - I totally get that—I was the same way. I dealt with my OCD alone for months, coming up with every excuse not to see a therapist. When I finally found the courage to ask for help, it was still scary, and those first sessions were tough. But as time went on, I realized I should have done it a long time ago. OCD loves to come up with reasons to avoid the very thing that could help, and fear makes it even harder. But you don’t have to go through this alone. Whenever you feel ready, I truly think it could be beneficial. A therapist who understands OCD can make such a difference!
@AnonymityK You’re absolutely right! Will definitely take that into consideration.
@S. L. - Glad to hear that! Take your time with it, and remember that every small step counts. :)
Routines can help :) Apart from gradually delaying any cleaning, sticking to a schedule can help so much. For example, if you’re the type who showers compulsively, allow yourself to shower once in the morning and once at night. Whatever happens between then, just do your best to wait until the next shower. Brushing your teeth? Brush in the morning, after lunch, and at night. Limit anything between those set times. Some other examples: Laundry: If you feel the need to wash clothes frequently due to contamination fears, set specific days for doing laundry. For example, wash clothes Monday, Wednesday, Friday only. Then gradually reduce to two days like Tuesday and Thursday. Eventually trying to go down to one day of the week. Eating Out: If eating food from outside feels unsafe, create a routine where you allow yourself to eat takeout once a week. Stick to that schedule, and gradually challenge yourself to two times. The key is to gradually change the number of times you do something, allowing your anxiety to become more manageable over time. I hope that helps some.
@issphra 🫶🏻 That does help. Totally makes sense. Thanks for the tips! 😊
Hi S.L.! I read your post- I'm a therapist and I've seen how difficult it can be to make the choice to begin therapy. Since growth never happens in the comfort zone, it's the challenges we face that help us improve our lives. NOCD therapists will never judge you, if that is your fear. We work with all sorts of OCD presentations and have seen it all. AnonymityK responded to you and really summed up what happens in treatment. A therapist can help you build up tolerance for uncomfortable thoughts. We also emphasize accepting uncertainty. If you have any questions about therapy, I'm happy to speak with you. You can reach me or another NOCD therapist through the care team at treatmyocd.com. Take care and reach out when you are ready!
@Donna Simons Thank you for responding.
Hello, Thank you for reaching out. Before I say anything else, let me unequivocally state, "IMPROVEMENT IS POSSIBLE"! The next question is how to achieve this? The only therapeutic way to defeat Contamination OCD is through a technique called "Exposure Response Prevention" (ERP). This is where you expose yourself to the situation you fear and then prevent yourself from performing your usual response. For example, if you have contamination OCD. If you view a trash can as contaminated and therefore, if you happen to touch a trash can you wash your hands for an inordinate amount of time. So ERP would have you touch a trash can and then NOT wash your hands. You will feel a tremendous amount of anxiety and discomfort. But after sitting with this anxiety and discomfort for some time (say,5, 10, 20 minutes) your anxiety will go down and you will be able to move on with your day. This will teach two important lessons. 1) You can handle more anxiety than you thought as evidenced by being able to avoid washing your hands. 2) The feared situation of touching a contaminated object was not as bad as you thought it would be. For ERP to be successful it is important that you do this work with a therapist. Together, the two of you could create exposures that get more challenging as you progress in your treatment. By targeting the compulsion (for instance, hand washing) and eliminating it, you can indeed, conquer your OCD and be able to live a fuller life as you engage in activities that you never thought possible. One brief but inspiring example is a member I know who used to wash his hands with soap and water very intensely after urinating. He would scrub his hands intensely with soap and then wash under every single finger nail. This was very time consuming and draining and caused going to the bathroom to be a stressful ordeal. However, after attending therapy and doing ERP, he is now able to urinate and then quickly wash his hands WITHOUT soap and WITHOUT washing under every single nail. This is something that would have been unthinkable ten years ago. Thank G-d, he has made tremendous progress and is just one of many examples of people who have overcome their OCD.
@Noah Pollack Thanks for replying back. Will definitely take your information & put it to good use. Thanks also for sharing your story.
Short answer - ERP therapy
I’m losing it completely, I’ve never had a flare up like this with contamination. I’m so burnt out seriously , I feel like I’m going insane. My hands are cracking and bleeding from washing them and my family’s getting very tired of me , they think I should go stay in a hospital or something for a while because of how bad it is. OCD as taken away my relationships with people , I can’t sit on the couch anymore with my family , I can’t hug my dog anymore , I can’t relax ever. I just needed to write this down as I really can’t process my feelings right now as I have too many thoughts , any advice?
I have contamination OCD that causes me to excessively wash my hands/clean items with disinfectant wipes. I know I just need to start with small exposures but how do I do that without spiraling? I tried a while back by just touching the outside of my dishwasher and not washing my hands after and it led to me being unable to even exist in my house. I basically lived on my couch for three weeks as it was the only 'safe' space that I had not touched with my dirty hands. I had to take a week off work to clean my house to make it somewhat liveable. I still haven't got round to cleaning everything though so things like my kitchen are still no-go zones that I don't enter. I just don't know how to start ERP without it making everything worse. Any advice would be appreciated. I am not seeing a therapist at the moment due to financial constraints.
back in october i made my first post about my specific type of ocd, how it mixes in with my day to day and how i “deal” with it. i talked about the starting point, how it gradually got worse, and then how it was going just a few months ago. i always think it’s insane how much can change in just the course of a small to a large amount of time. right now, i honestly feel like garbage. to be quite sincere i really want to give up, i’m barely holding on by a thread. and if i cut that thread, i really doubt anyone would care. i’ve never considered myself to be a suicidal person, and i still don’t consider myself that right now. it just gets to a point where it’s just, a lot to deal with. i don’t really enjoy things a lot nowadays. sure i have good days like everyone does, like today, when i was just enjoying my day without worries. but then it all comes crawling back twice as bad the following days. i take online college so i’m usually just stuck at home most of the time. but, when i do decide to actually go out and leave my house, my ocd just explodes because i have this whole routine i need to do or else i feel like i’ll contaminate wherever i end up going. i’m not going to go really deep into my compulsions because it’s hard enough to live with them, much more having to type them all out in detail. but when i go out my compulsions go from wiping down all my stuff i’m going to use after showering, to washing my clothes/cleaning the washer + dryer. i also have separate things (or two of the same thing) i use specifically in my house, and items i use when going out. such as shampoo/body wash, deodorant, lotion, hair curler, etc. as if that’s not draining enough, i also feel the need to fast a couple days prior to any plan i make because i’ve forced myself to believe i need to feel empty in order to be clean. i’m not sure if that’s my past eating disorder talking, or my ocd, but my brain can’t help but think any food in my house is utterly and completely contaminated. i’m so tired of this feeling, feeling like nothing will ever be clean again. feeling like my ocd is trapped in my childhood home. feeling that wave of diseases rushing through my veins the moment i step foot into what’s supposed to be “home”. and i’m so scared of therapy because what if i do get healed, and then everything comes rushing back the second i step into my room. i’m planning on moving somewhere far from my current house in this next coming year, so sometimes i feel like just waiting it out. but it’s insufferable when going to hangout with someone. i miss my friends, my family, and my partner. it’s crazy to me that i’m dealing with all this at the young age of 18 but, i’m sure lots of people have it way worse. i just want to find a way out, any possible way. but i keep pushing myself deeper and deeper that when i finally find a way, it will no longer exist.
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