So the last couple of weeks I was in a super bad ROCD spiral, I was constantly looking things up and doing all the normal compulsions. Now I'm doing better, but I'm starting to wonder if that even was ROCD because I'm just thinking that maybe we're just not a great fit, but I want to be with him forever so bad. Does anyone else experience this?
Thank you for sharing what you're going through. It takes courage to talk about these confusing shifts in feelings. Experiencing periods of intense ROCD symptoms followed by a different kind of questioning, like wondering about compatibility despite wanting the relationship, can certainly be part of the ROCD cycle for many. The nature of these thoughts can change, yet still cause distress. If you’re struggling and need more assistance, remember that help is available. Please don’t hesitate to reach out to us at NOCD to find out how we can support you. Also here are some helpful resources: https://www.treatmyocd.com/what-is-ocd/common-fears/why-am-i-scared-to-be-happy-in-a-relationship
Rocd and health ocd are the worst Health makes you most feared And rocd makes you most delusional and miserable If you want him it is probably because your inner self knows why And ocd will try to do anything to you to not believe in that, I had rocd and still have it even though we broke up, In relantioship 99% everything was wrong After 99%was okay So this is craziest thing ever But you have to draw line in the middle and try to see things exactly as they are As much as you can. And ofcourse Talks alot of talks with your boyfriend, he needs to understand you!
@Annoying_OCD Ofcourse always. But it ia wrong for me to giving you reassurence We both know anyone who has pocd would never hurt harm or do anything sick with children
@Annoying_OCD Yeah that was Urge of ocd To do something Even if you do this things, its simply means that you are listening to ocd not your inner desires Ocd used to block me for even saying letters or whole word, it is crazy the amount of anxiety we people have, but at the end of the day it is only ocd
@Annoying_OCD No need for deep cleaning You cleaned it 2 times It is clean and safe ✌️✌️✌️✌️ Something would happen already You didn t do such contamination with it (urine is not that filthy that we think) As you actually think you did Go and sleep with anxiety at first but very next night will be ok and your brain will just realised it ✌️✌️✌️💪💪
@Annoying_OCD Yes, but normally, without 100 times same spot, just once And its enough
@Annoying_OCD Wait, sorry can we do this on another post maybe @faye1010 will be triggered i dont want that
@Annoying_OCD I comment it again now
Good morning everyone, I need some opinions or help on what people might think is wrong. March 2024 is when I started questioning everything about my relationship for no reason he is everything that I wanted, but my mind is trying to tell me that it isn't April 2024 was probably one of the worst times of my life I stayed home from work because I was constantly crying and totally sick because I didn't know what to do. The thoughts slowly started to not bother me as much. I feel like since it ever started I never have gotten that. Love feeling back for my boyfriend, but I want it back so bad because when I did have it, it was absolutely amazing. I have no desire to kiss him or be intimate with him either which also scares me fast-forward to today. I am waking up with so many doubts in questioning myself. Is this ever gonna go away or am I ever gonna feel that love back for my boyfriend ever again? I feel like I'm wasting his time and my time because it feels never ending. I went to a therapist shortly after starting to deal with this and she didn't really seem to help so now on Wednesday I have a new therapist that specializes in OCD I think does anyone have any advice? Thank you so much in advance.
I’ve been with my partner for almost a year now, and my rocd has become really really bad. I keep feeling like I fell out of love and I just have eyes for other people now, and that I would rather be with someone else. It feels like I’m infatuated with other people and it makes me so guilty. It’s been so hard for me because it’s hard to tell if it’s just my brain convincing me I don’t love my partner or if this is really my desire. The biggest fear I have is hurting my partner, so there’s also a sense of urgency that I need to tell them how I’ve been feeling to prevent myself from leading them on I guess. This is compounded with a history of porn addiction that still affects me and makes me feel like I’m more attracted to others. Has anyone else been in this position? I feel like I’m alone and that this is the sign that I’m terrible and shouldn’t be with my partner and that the end of our relationship is inevitable. I can’t tell if I really love them or not and if I really want to still be with them and I hate that I’m having that doubt.
Lately my ROCD has been flaring up, making it difficult to even be around my partner. I’m having so many troubling thoughts with the one that bugs me most being, “maybe this isn’t my OCD, maybe I’m just in a bad relationship and I’m trying to cover it up and blame it on OCD”. This thought really scares me because there are valid doubts in my relationship but my boyfriend and I have openly talked about them and are trying to work through. My OCD won’t take that as an option tho. It makes me feel like I need to be 100% certain that these things can NEVER happen again or else we need to break up immediately. So anything he says in that moment about trying to do better, my OCD will not trust anything he says and just wait until the next “bad thing” happens. When I continuously bring these things up to my boyfriend even tho nothing has happened between these conversations, it exhausts him making it feel like he can never do enough. I feel so bad because I know it’s just my OCD getting in the way. But then that thought creeps in saying I can’t trust him because I need to protect myself. It’s just an ongoing cycle that is so tiring. I don’t even know what I want anymore. We are very opposite when it comes to emotions. I am very in tune and very emotionally intelligent, and he is not. He is the opposite. I do recognize that my anxious attachment style may be hard for him too but I can’t stop thinking about all of his flaws and all of the things he needs to do to make our relationship better. It makes me feel like I’m the only one putting in effort when in reality that is not true. But my OCD does make me feel like he doesn’t really love me or want to be with me and that he feels forced to be with me or do things for me. It makes me feel like him being with me is like a chore. Can anyone relate? My OCD just makes me feel like I can’t trust anything he says to make our relationship better.
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