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- 17w
Can someone talk to me? +18
Just woke up and feel terrible about my events and everything. Is there someone available?
Just woke up and feel terrible about my events and everything. Is there someone available?
Yes.What happened?
Trigger warning for disturbing s3xu4l stuff. Since i was a child i was exposed to, you know, 18+ content on the internet. My way of, yk, fixing it was to "rub" me, this is uncomfortable to say but oh well. So i ended up looking for lesbian stuff, not because female bodies were more attracive to me, but because i wanted to see something that resembled the "rub" sensation. I was also curious, as homosexuality was "Taboo" for me, my father was quite homophobic. I liked anime, so i ended up looking for hentai like the stuff i described above, on the busiest pages (the orange and black one) I found only one compilation with that at like 12-13 years old, and in that compilation there were very disturbing things, like clips of what looked like characters in schools and they looked very small. I saw it anyway without questioning it, and i even think i saw it again around that age (12-13) or i tried to search it but i didn't find it, i don't know. Then when i was 15 and the anxiety attack that i still have now started but with fears of being a Z00ph1.. but it hadn't fully dawned on me yet, so the last time i saw anything was when i searched for "incest gay comics", and the only thing that came out was, again, characters that looked small or in a chibi style. Not to mention that i did search for more disturbing things throughout those years (11-15 years old) but what i saw was mostly characters of my age. Another thing i don't remember when it was, or how, is that since i had a boyfriend at the time, i liked to fantasize about characters my age or ships my age, so i looked them up to fantasize about him. Once i don't know if i came across it or my boyfriend sent it to me (like at 12-13 again or so) but it was a very disturbing anime video of kindergarten girls turning adult and having yk, i don't remember if i was upset about it or if i fixed with it. I am very worried about these and that they would make me a monster or a P, these are my main real events and i'm so terrified of them.
I am sorry that you struggle..I want to say to you that you were a kid and you didnt understand then.I know is difficult and I understand that you feel guilty.But is not your fault.And you are not a monster.You just need help
Thank you, i'm sorry if i gave too much details or if i disturbed you, it's just so bad, i just think i have the worst events here :(
Hi, I couldn't find your most recent post, so I'll just reply here! 🙇♀️ None of this makes you a monster or a... you know. There's thousands of people who've had similar childhood experiences (unfortunately), but it's not something that causes them this much distress. That's where the OCD comes into play and tries to twist these memories into something else entirely. I experienced similar things as a child (being exposed to inappropriate content at a young age, exploration, etc...). There's a lot I saw that I wish I didn't, but it doesn't define who I am now. And it doesn't define who you are now either. The fact you're worried about this is proof you aren't like those people. You've learned and grown so, so much since then 🥲🫂
Thank you so much! And also thank you for your really kind words. I really appreciate it. I'm so sorry you went through something similar, it's very painful, i send you hugs and strength to keep going 🫂
@Tireddd Sending the same to you 🫂 Take it one day at a time.
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