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What people mean when they "know but they didn't know" regarding sexuality is that they pushed themselves into an identity simply to fit in, but they knew that they were pushing themselves and struggling. With LGBT people, the only thing keeping them in the closet is social stigma. Unless you feel a kathunk in your heart and melt around a pretty girl and think about her on top of you, you're not gay. It's as simple as that. And if you are, it doesn't make a difference really. You can still be in a relationship with who you want.
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Must’ve been bi then
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Ughhh I hate HOCD
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Are you worried you might be possibly gay? First off, there's nothing wrong with you if you are, and it's perfectly normal. My weird journey with sexuality caused me lots of grief since I was thoroughly obsessed with the idea that I might be possibly gay or straight. And it turned out, I was neither. And once I relaxed myself and gave myself the reassurance that it's okay to express my sexuality on an individual basis rather than a wide swath basis, it stopped being an issue for me. And I was finally able to let myself be, and I came to the conclusion that I was pansexual. Bisexual was a term I heard as a kid, and I didn't particularly identify with it because I thought it was something edgy people put on their MySpace profiles. And even if you are bisexual or pansexual, just think about it this way. You have a lot more people to pick from in being actually interested, and you can chuck out the bad apples.
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I have HOCD so it’s a sub type of ocd where u fear of being a sexuality u do not identify with so I’m constantly checking and figuring out if I am I have real event ocd too that doesn’t help and I’m Scared my past means I am
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I like woman a lot but the devil says I’m gay but I am attracted to woman and I am a man
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- 18w ago
I feel so sad, alone, scared and hopeless. Until two months ago there was not even the remote possibility of being anything other than heterosexual and now the idea that I could find out that I was lesbian or bisexual terrifies me to death. Everything was born from the fact that I didn't feel sexual desire towards my ex-boyfriend and I started to be afraid that it was because I was a lesbian... how can I be a lesbian or bisexual if everything was born from this? I would like to run away from myself and my head. I would really like to go back and go back to my life before. I can't take it anymore. I just want to live my life like before
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I’m 25 and never ever thought this before my soocd relapse. I have a bf of 5 years. Never been a high libido kinda girl. Don’t get me wrong I do get turned on by my bf but not like every day you know? - That had always been in the back of my head, is this normal and ok? But my ocd has latched onto the most scariest what if EVER. My brain is now saying How do you know you won’t prefer to sleep and kiss girls if you haven’t tried it: and it’s that unknown that is scaring the shit out of me. I DONT AND NEVER HAVE wanted to sleep / kiss a girl. But now my intrusive thoughts is all I think about!!! I don’t want I don’t want I don’t want??? So why does my brain think BUT WHAT IF??? I know ocd thrives off uncertainty which is why I think this is happening? But I don’t wanna find out or work it out because all I want is to be with my bf and marry him!! Is this just the epitome of OCD?
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Sorry long post. Anyone feel like now they’re just in extreme denial. Like when I was little I noticed guys more than girls in movies and was more drawn to them. I remember changing my mindset to switch that. 98%of my life has been straight until recently. I felt drawn to some guys but never thought of it sexually. Always had girl crushes dreams and porn. Now I watch porn and I feel like straight takes longer and then I go and watch gay porn and feel nothing until I tell myself it’s two attractive dudes and love is love and imagine physical sensations and then it hits like suddenly. Like I have to convince myself it’s alright. Then when I try again I can do all that but feel nothing and then straight porn works. Idk if it’s just getting a fix or the first time works with anything or what but it’s confusing. On top of that I’ve felt girl relationships including my wife maybe miss something and a guy maybe matches that feeling that but then I feel like I’d be missing something without a girl or my wife. Idk I’ve had some rough times in life with male figures in my life but idk. I feel like I have to convince myself more and more that I’m straight even more than the first time I dealt with this. Can someone relate? Please
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