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Exactly! Our brains are just creative. With all of the knowledge we have, it’s perfectly normal for it to conjure up random crazy thoughts. They don’t have to mean anything! :)
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It's easier said than done, especially when thoughts come with feelings. For example, I struggle with POCD a lot and I have tons of moments when my thoughts come with such strong and overwhelming feelings and sensations that it's so, so hard to acknowledge and accept them without doubting yourself or looking for reassurance, mostly because they feel like proof that there is a great chance that you might be what you REALLY don't want to be!
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Hi corablue, I hear you and I agree, it is definitely easier said than done. I can relate to you with my own struggles with POCD and the compulsions to anazlyze the thoughts or ask what they mean about me as a person. I think it’s also about allowing yourself to sit in the discomfort, and the uncertainty of not knowing, because we will never really have an answer that will satisfy the OCD. Observe the thoughts, and notice the feelings as just what they are. Thoughts and feelings. I know they can feel so so real, I think that is a hallmark of OCD. If it didn’t feel real to the person with OCD, we would just be able to disregard it.
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Even Being aware of this knowledge,OCD doesn't sit queit
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Hi Sourav378, yes I agree, knowledge of something is definitely different than experiencing it. I am still not done with my OCD recovery journey, and have good and bad days. Sometimes it helps to remind myself that it’s not really about getting to this place of “never having an intrusive thought again” because I don’t know if that really exists. Rather, it’s about learning the tools to succeed so that when an intrusive thought does come in, we are as best prepared as we can be to face our fears.
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Truly am aha! moment. It's one we often need to have multiple times before we internalize the learning and can apply it in our lives
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Ok, quick experiment. Read the sentence below, preferably out loud. "I want to eat greasy grimy gopher guts" Do you actually want to eat them?
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This made me laugh, and no I dont
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@luchalysol So what's the difference? Aside from strong emotions
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@NOCD Advocate - Katie You're right. It seems so real, but Im looking forward to treatment. I start on the 20th. I really want to fight this monster for the sake of my son.
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@luchalysol And eventually you'll fight it for yourself too
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@NOCD Advocate - Katie For both of us. All Ive always wanted was to be a great mom and be involved. That would make my heart sing.
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For me, it helps by taking a step back and looking at it as “wow, I just had a thought/image/urge that I actually wanted to do this. I’ll look at it as still just a thought/image/urge without examining the actual content.” If it feels like you need to “prove” to yourself that you don’t want to do it or reassure yourself that you didn’t want the thought, try to resist that. Instead say “I don’t know if I want to do this or not, but I’m not going to try and figure it out. I’m going to focus on what is in front of me that is important.” Our thoughts that provoke anxiety seem like they are SUPER important, and that they need to be figured out or suppressed or pushed away immediately. Whenever I feel this way, it raises a red flag for me, and I look at it as just an OCD thought and try to not be afraid of the content. I try to let the thought sit, and no matter how disturbing or against our nature the thought is, accept it as just a thought. Hope that helps!
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Im going to start trying this! Thank you! I just want to get better for my son's and family's sake. This has disturbed my life into a very dark and sad place.
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Its hard for me cause my thoughts are of the "want" variety as opposed to "what if" which then makes me feel horrible. I have harm ocd so this just makes me feel disgusted and ashamed. I don't "want" any of this, not the thoughts and not acting on it.
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Can you explain how the wording of the thought makes it any different?
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I struggle with a very similar issue. It's hard to both understand and cope with it!
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@NOCD Advocate - Katie It makes me freak out more cause its almost an affirmative but I don't want to hurt anyone. Those cause me the most distress
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Don't panic, you're still the same girl, your OC gives you a lot of intrusive thoughts that aren't you and that disgust you and scare you and that you don't want and that you don't think are true, and your OC gives you the false feelings.Also, don't forget that whatever comes to mind, whatever intrusive thoughts you have and whatever you feel, is all yours.
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I struggle so bad with intrusive thoughts. They can be so bad that I'll cry because I KNOW that's not how I feel or want to do. (Too embarrassed to say what they're about) I'll constantly try to figure out why I have them, and constantly figure out what they mean, causing me to constantly circle around and around. I had to get on anxeity meds, which helped a little but the thoughts still happen. How do you help yourself with this? How do you know that you're just not some physcopath? 😅
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OK, this might sound really dumb, but when you guys get intrusive thoughts, do they just come once and then go away? I’ve heard that repeatedly thinking about an intrusive thought is considered ‘checking,’ but it doesn’t feel like I have any control over how many times it comes up in my head. It’s not like I’m trying to check anything—it just keeps showing up, almost like it’s terrorizing me every time. I can’t seem to stop it from looping, stop remembering it, or prevent it from coming up. Every time it does, I feel horrified, and I already know it’s going to horrify me. I don’t think I’m actively trying to see if my feelings have changed, so is this still considered checking? How do other people get an intrusive thought and just move on? Doesn’t it pop up a million times for them too? I always thought that was normal, but now I’m hearing this could be a compulsion, and I feel really confused, scared, and lost. Is this why my OCD feels so extreme? Because I really don’t feel like I can control how many times the thought pops up.
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