- Username
- pj101
- Date posted
- 5y ago
Omg I get intrusive thoughts like that too. I’m 13 rn but I’m too scared to tell my parents because my ocd didn’t get a lot worse until December. My parents won’t understand it. Did you do therapy?
How did you overcome that? Would you please like to guide or explain?
I am not suffering from OCD but the person I loved the most is suffering since last 13 years and he told me now and I just want to know how I can help him to overcome this
@shanza Ali Yes, with much pleasure ?. As long a journey from age 12 to 21 with this disorder, something that helped me (which what my therapist told me) was to think of intrusive thoughts as “tics”. The point of this is that, tics are just things that are there but they have no meaning. So every time a “weird” thought came in (for example, let’s say an insane intrusive thought of the devil slapping you in the butt; I know it’s weird but that’s the crazy reality of our intrusive thoughts), you have to know that it’s meaningless. It doesn’t mean anything even though it’s there....like a tic. So I applied that concept and I felt much better. Also, KNOWING that you didn’t put the thought of “God is stupid” in your own head on purpose really helps you believe that intrusive thoughts is not your own doing but rather the doing of something wrong with your brain. Not your soul, but rather the fault of your brain. It takes practice day by day to distract yourself into normal thinking.
@cgislander Hey there! I did get therapy BUT it wasn’t until I was 18, unfortunately. And wow, you are very young! Yes, very likely, parents will not understand it at first. But I personally believe it’s very important to open up to them at some point! My parents were able to understand my disorder more after a long journey. They were sad and in denial about it because they didn’t want their children to have such an illness (as I don’t either!) But they were supportive! What meant a lot was that they understand mental disorders are just as real as cancer. People like you need all the support you can get! I went to my first therapy session with my mom?
hey yall!! i’m new to this app and it’s so comforting to see many others share similar experiences that i’ve went through to start this off, my ocd rooted from religion when i was around 9 years old. i have a huge family, mostly catholic, so growing up i believed in god due to my surroundings (they were never forceful w religion). it began with intrusive thoughts like “do ___ or you’ll go to hell” or intrusive thoughts that would make me do things or else i’d be disrespecting god which, as a child, terrified me. then it went on to my extreme fear of germs. i would wash my hands constantly and use hand sanitizer every second to a point where my hands were cracked and bleeding. i had to see a dermatologist in order for the skin on my hands to go back to normal. growing up my intrusive thoughts became extremely overwhelming (especially as a teenager), having to do with sexuality, not knowing if what i remembered was real or if my mind was making it up, relationship ocd, thoughts ab me/ a loved one being harmed, ocd about sexual things, etc etc. i always felt so gross bc of these things as i had thought that i was the only one who experienced this. i’m so glad i’ve found a community where so many of us can relate to these things, as i feel so comfortable and not alone. i’m currently still a teenager and have managed to handle my intrusive thoughts a little better, but i do have an extreme amount of anxiety as well, a lot of it surrounding those intrusive thoughts. i can’t really get therapy due to personal reasons but i’m grateful i can vent in a safe space:) i feel so welcomed on this app, i hope all of you are well <3
So, this may not be everyone’s cup of tea. But eight years ago after getting out of the military. I was very ill, my walking around weight now is 219-225 I love food. At that time I was 159 I thought I had cancer I couldn’t keep food down. I spent more time going to that bathroom than living. The VA thought it would be good to put me on muscle relaxers, it did the opposite affect. It made me worse almost to the point where I almost lost control and took my own life. Fast forward eight years later and the fear of losing control is what is consistently on my mind. I do rituals to make sure the door is locked, I have to watch my groceries at all times because I feel like someone might poison me. I have to put my clothes on a certain way or else I feel like I might lose control. So, this is my life right now I had my first appointment today and I can feel some light at the end of the tunnel. I know erp therapy is going to be rough. But I just want my life back. To all suffering from this terrible thing called ocd keep fighting and turn to God, it really does help me when the anxiety kicks up. Love you all and remember the valley is only temporary and the sun shines brightest at the peak. Don’t give up.
I gave my life to Jesus Christ in July/August(i dont remember the exact date), everything was fine up until this point. This is something I've dealt with before I met Christ. I dont want to leave God because of this and I keep finding myslef being isolated and I don't know how to properly handle this. I keep getting really bad intrusive thoughts and I've prayed, rebuked, did a deliverance prayer, read the bible, everything. I prayed to God about how lost I felt and I just couldn't understand why this was happening, then he revealed to me that I am dealing with OCD, so I did some research on it. Does anyone have advice for this? 🙏🏻🤍
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