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- agriculturalindustries
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- 4y ago
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- Carl CornettCarl Cornett
- Date posted
- 4y ago
There’s an issue with the premise. The notion of needing someone to help means that we’re legitimizing the problem to begin with. What I’m saying is the distress signal in the brain that you experience isn’t in your control, just what you do with the fact that it appeared. It can feel intense, unpleasant, ‘real’, or any other adjective we can conjure, but it is still just a signal. It’s like hearing someone yelling outside your bedroom window. You can choose open the window and argue with them, or you can choose to ignore it because it’s not important. What’s important to realize is that IS something you can choose. So, right now, you can choose to take this signal seriously and plead online for help to stop feeling a certain feeling. Or you can decide you’re capable of handling this and you’re going to let it do what it needs to do because it isn’t important.
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- SheebySheeby
- Date posted
- 4y ago
This is amazing, and what my step dad tells me to help me through triggers. Carl, have you considered being an OCD coach or specialist?
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- Carl CornettCarl Cornett
- Date posted
- 4y ago
@sheeby I have, although probably not for many years.
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- agriculturalindustriesagricultural...
- Date posted
- 4y ago
Yes, I get every word of you. But these time it feels different. It is like about bdsm. They talk about some things, which I find kinda exciting. It really fears me. I feel like i will do in real life, i feel like i must live that kind of life as many bdsm loving people do. But thats not for me, It is totally different from the life I want. And there is another point too. I am kinda different from other straight men, I like being submissive and degrading. I dont know why I like it, but it is part of me. But I have read some things about those issues, they talk about cross dressing and being bisexual. I dont really want to be do any of them. But i think that there are so many signs, at least for crossdressing (not for bisexuality) still I dont want to wear as woman or act as woman. But like I am a litttle bit feminene, so it really makes me fearful. I am so scared
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- Carl CornettCarl Cornett
- Date posted
- 4y ago
@agriculturalindustries None of what you said changes my original post.
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- agriculturalindustriesagricultural...
- Date posted
- 4y ago
@NOCD Advocate - Carl Cornett but they sound so real, there are evidences. I am not myself anymore
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- Carl CornettCarl Cornett
- Date posted
- 4y ago
@agriculturalindustries Still doesn’t change it. Feeling or sounding real isn’t being real.
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- Stronger. Stronger.
- Date posted
- 4y ago
Don’t google. With an anxious brain it is horrible! I’ve been where you are before. I convinced myself once that I was a pedophile and was bawling because I didn’t want to die, but was convinced I had to kill myself. You need to go take a walk. Or sit in a blanket and listen to calming music. You need to get out of this highly anxious state first and then you can focus on furthering your recovery.
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- agriculturalindustriesagricultural...
- Date posted
- 4y ago
The point is I wasnt anxious at all. I was just surfimg the web and I came across with that.
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- Carl CornettCarl Cornett
- Date posted
- 4y ago
How would you like someone to help?
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- agriculturalindustriesagricultural...
- Date posted
- 4y ago
I dont know, sir. I just don't know what to do anymore. I just want dont want to live anymore. That is so hard, I have been doing well. But I read some things on the web, they triggered me so much. I cant handle these anymore. I just wabt to be happy, I am so young. I want to be myself again. I dont know who am I.
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- agriculturalindustriesagricultural...
- Date posted
- 4y ago
@agriculturalindustries Please Sir say something.
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- agriculturalindustriesagricultural...
- Date posted
- 4y ago
Carl Cornett, Sir are you there?
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- HealingjourneyHealingjourney
- Date posted
- 4y ago
Try journalising ur thoughts on paper or i don’t know if u have cbd or some sort or relaxer.
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