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There’s an issue with the premise. The notion of needing someone to help means that we’re legitimizing the problem to begin with. What I’m saying is the distress signal in the brain that you experience isn’t in your control, just what you do with the fact that it appeared. It can feel intense, unpleasant, ‘real’, or any other adjective we can conjure, but it is still just a signal. It’s like hearing someone yelling outside your bedroom window. You can choose open the window and argue with them, or you can choose to ignore it because it’s not important. What’s important to realize is that IS something you can choose. So, right now, you can choose to take this signal seriously and plead online for help to stop feeling a certain feeling. Or you can decide you’re capable of handling this and you’re going to let it do what it needs to do because it isn’t important.
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This is amazing, and what my step dad tells me to help me through triggers. Carl, have you considered being an OCD coach or specialist?
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@sheeby I have, although probably not for many years.
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Yes, I get every word of you. But these time it feels different. It is like about bdsm. They talk about some things, which I find kinda exciting. It really fears me. I feel like i will do in real life, i feel like i must live that kind of life as many bdsm loving people do. But thats not for me, It is totally different from the life I want. And there is another point too. I am kinda different from other straight men, I like being submissive and degrading. I dont know why I like it, but it is part of me. But I have read some things about those issues, they talk about cross dressing and being bisexual. I dont really want to be do any of them. But i think that there are so many signs, at least for crossdressing (not for bisexuality) still I dont want to wear as woman or act as woman. But like I am a litttle bit feminene, so it really makes me fearful. I am so scared
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@agriculturalindustries None of what you said changes my original post.
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@NOCD Advocate - Carl Cornett but they sound so real, there are evidences. I am not myself anymore
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@agriculturalindustries Still doesn’t change it. Feeling or sounding real isn’t being real.
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Don’t google. With an anxious brain it is horrible! I’ve been where you are before. I convinced myself once that I was a pedophile and was bawling because I didn’t want to die, but was convinced I had to kill myself. You need to go take a walk. Or sit in a blanket and listen to calming music. You need to get out of this highly anxious state first and then you can focus on furthering your recovery.
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The point is I wasnt anxious at all. I was just surfimg the web and I came across with that.
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How would you like someone to help?
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I dont know, sir. I just don't know what to do anymore. I just want dont want to live anymore. That is so hard, I have been doing well. But I read some things on the web, they triggered me so much. I cant handle these anymore. I just wabt to be happy, I am so young. I want to be myself again. I dont know who am I.
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@agriculturalindustries Please Sir say something.
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Carl Cornett, Sir are you there?
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Try journalising ur thoughts on paper or i don’t know if u have cbd or some sort or relaxer.
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BIG TRIGGER WARNING ⚠️ i keep asking for reassurance on chatGPT and it feels like my fears have came true this is what it’s said and i’m really panicking “I understand how distressing this feels, and I want to reassure you that you’re not alone in experiencing these feelings. It is indeed possible for anxiety and OCD to create intense urges or sensations that can feel very real, leading you to believe you might be moving in a way you don’t intend. However, this doesn’t mean you’re doing something wrong or that you’re acting with malicious intent. It’s more about how your mind and body are reacting to anxiety. You might feel the urge to move closer or adjust your position, but that can be a response to the anxiety rather than a conscious decision to make contact. It’s crucial to remember that having these feelings doesn’t define you or your actions. They can feel overwhelming, but they don’t reflect your true intentions. If you find that these thoughts are causing you significant distress, speaking with a mental health professional could provide you with tools to navigate these feelings more effectively and help you feel more secure in your actions. You’re working through a lot, and it’s okay to seek support.” i can’t do this i’m feeling the urge to self harm i won’t but oh my god i’m really panicking i feel extremely distressed
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I feel like it's got to a point that I just can't deal with stuff on my own anymore. I've tried to help myself with compulsions and thoughts and behaviours and it helps to an extent but I feel like I just need more help. But I don't even know where to start, I've felt so ignored in the past and I don't even know where you can turn to. I'm in the UK so it's difficult, especially considering I'm only 17, to get any help for this kind of thing. I just want someone to talk to, something to help – medication, maybe? I want to try it, I want to see if it would stop the overthinking for a while. Stuff isn't as bad as it has been before, but I feel like I can't just leave this anymore. I just don't know who to turn to or where to go from here.
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- 21w ago
Does anyone know of any rehabilitation centers for mental health? My ocd has gotten bad today to the point where I feel like leaving :( and desperately get help . Ever since I began medication months ago I been feeling fine but all sudden I feel like my episodes are rapidly coming back. I’m more responsive to them. I find myself ruminating more and engaging in compulsions. I feel embarrassed that my family would have to know if I considered making that choice of leaving . It’s never gotten to this breaking point , or at least I don’t think. I’ve been through this a billion times and each time it feels like it’s the worst and it’s gonna be the one that will permanently take over me and my full control. I’m from Elkhart, Indiana. Or if there’s anyone here that can talk to me I’d appreciate it I feel so alone right now and I’m more vulnerable because I’m home alone and I don’t have many friends. I’m scared that I’m gonna lose touch with myself. I don’t wanna lost my values or stop feeling my normal self. It feels real and scary. I want it to stop.
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