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- BigRuss
- Date posted
- 5y ago
Shanza Ali, ERP is what we refer to as “exposure and response Prevention” it is known widely as the golden standard to treating OCD. I’m sorry your loved one is suffering, id recommend looking up ERP on google and reading about it and finding a good CBT therapist to help your loved one
Very good advice, Lapinot
What is ERP?
Have you gone through it with your therapist first?
Actually I m not suffering from OCD , my loved one is suffering and I don't know what to do for him.
RosyRainbows yes I did ERP for about a month, although not as intense as I’d like to admit. I stopped going for about a month due to me moving into my own place and a heavy work load but a new obsession has been weighing me down recently so I tried last night to start an exposure on it and that happened. I will be going back to my therapist in the next week to start again. I think it may have been because I started on something that made me like 8/10 anxious so it kinda blew up in my face
He is not responding to medicine and anything I just want to know every single possibility which can make him better
Would you like to share and guide me how to deal with him ?
I’ve never taken medicine at least not yet but I do know some people don’t react to them, was he on an SSRI? That’s usually what they give you for this condition
Yes I guess he has started his medicine again because his condition was really worse , he is suffering from contamination OCD
I am very worried about him because he sometimes tried to hide his situation form me too . he can't stay home because of this .
I’m not a medical professional but my recommendation would be for you two to find a therapist who specializes in what’s called CBT(Cognitive Behavioral Therapy) they will put him in the exposure and response Prevention therapy, meaning he will purposely expose him self to the fears of being contaminated, without doing any compulsions to relieve himself. It’s very scary at first, but as he progresses he will re wire his brain and he will no longer fear contamination and will be able to live with the uncertainty
Tried to practice ERP today. I was able to handle some things. It just seems so scary. I hope I can continue to improve but worried something may trigger me. Yesterday i had a bad episode to the point of being in tears. I dont like when it gets to that point. Hoping to stay strong. Any tips from anyone on here that helped them stay motivated?
Just kind of an ERP vent. Anyone wanna talk about this experience? It’s bumming me out. So I’ve been doing ERP exercises daily to help myself get over this theme. I started out with ERP towards the gender I have had intrusive thoughts about (men), and it helped knock out a lot of the intrusive stuff and false attractions, but working on my ERP towards women has been rather difficult. I’m still getting mental blocks. I’m trying to expose myself to them and get over false anxiety and other negative false emotions. It’s worked, but it feels like I’m stuck right now. Anyone else getting frustrated? I know ERP is a process, but it feels like it’s taking absolutely forever. Anyone wanna talk / vent about ERP frustrations?
It feels like I can never even get to be able to get there. It shakes me to my core and writing out my fears, triggers, and compulsions today for my therapist made my OCD finally feel real and that it’s not just my anxiety. Has anyone else struggled with this? Any tips for newbies who are scared 💩less?
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