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- 3y
- Date posted
- 3y
i aint diagnosed but im almost 100% recovered but i need that final diagnosis, however you could feel better by a couple of things. one is realizing that you’re thoughts arent real, its all anxiety based and they give you terror and it’s horrifying. by knowing that it’s horrifying plus the fact that you feel guilt with the thoughts too prove that you arent whatever you fear. 2- however its still anxiety and it will do anything to keep you scared no matter how illogical it may be. in cases where it seems like its all real, its just immense fear messing with you. the best thing to do is remain UNCERTAIN bc im sure that whatever you’re obsessing ab will make no sense at all when you get out of the feared zone. 3- apply everything you see on every health page on intrusive thoughts, move on with your normal life and try to do daily tasks, if you have an intrusive thought or a barrage of them just pull through them and dont engage with them at all. you could be scared with them but dont engage with them bc it will get you in a bigger hole. 4- if you have a therapist listen to them bc they know what theyre doing 5- find distractions to keep your brain busy so you dont obsess over them. obsessing over intrusive thougghts is pointless bc the feared story is never true. 6- join support groups if you could to pull through this
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- 25w
I’m having a big OCD relapse and would like to hear anyone’s tips on how to be present and healthily deal with these intrusive thoughts and the “need” to preform compulsions. Thank you!!
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- OCD Conqueror
- Date posted
- 24w
Looking back, I realize I’ve had OCD since I was 7. though I wasn’t diagnosed until I was 30. As a kid, I was consumed by fears I couldn’t explain: "What if God isn’t real? What happens when we die? How do I know I’m real?" These existential thoughts terrified me, and while everyone has them from time to time, I felt like they were consuming my life. By 12, I was having daily panic attacks about death and war, feeling untethered from reality as depersonalization and derealization set in. At 15, I turned to drinking, spending the next 15 years drunk, trying to escape my mind. I hated myself, struggled with my body, and my intrusive thoughts. Sobriety forced me to face it all head-on. In May 2022, I finally learned I had OCD. I remember the exact date: May 10th. Reading about it, I thought, "Oh my God, this is it. This explains everything." My main themes were existential OCD and self-harm intrusive thoughts. The self-harm fears were the hardest: "What if I kill myself? What if I lose control?" These thoughts terrified me because I didn’t want to die. ERP changed everything. At first, I thought, "You want me to confront my worst fears? Are you kidding me?" But ERP is gradual and done at your pace. My therapist taught me to lean into uncertainty instead of fighting it. She’d say, "Maybe you’ll kill yourself—who knows?" At first, it felt scary, but for OCD, it was freeing. Slowly, I realized my thoughts were just thoughts. ERP gave me my life back. I’m working again, I’m sober, and for the first time, I can imagine a future. If you’re scared to try ERP, I get it. But if you’re already living in fear, why not try a set of tools that can give you hope?
- Date posted
- 23w
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