- Date posted
- 3y ago
- User type
- OCD Conqueror
- Date posted
- 3y ago
Yes, not doing compulsions is the correct course of action and will lead to success; but, just as we're not either blissfully happy or devastatingly down all the time, simply not doing compulsions isn't always going to make you feel like the problem is gone. It's going to take practice but you're off to a good start, so keep it going! Think of it this way: It took a lot of time getting to the point where OCD became a near-dabilitating factor in our lives and much like gaining weight over time is going to take time to lose, managing OCD is also going to take time. I spent most of last year and the first part of this year barely able to function. But the help I'm getting here has calmed things down considerably. However, there are times where it still feels like something's not right. It is definitely normal. Simply be with where you are and go easy on yourself. All is well.
- User type
- NOCD Alumni
- Date posted
- 3y ago
Great advice and glad to hear things have calmed down a great deal for you recently. Stay strong and keep up your positivity and determination. Take care.
- Date posted
- 3y ago
I’m gonna need an answer to this too :/
- User type
- NOCD Alumni
- Date posted
- 3y ago
Hi Halgal88*, sounds like the OCD bully is trying to ratchet up your anxiety levels because you aren’t letting your intrusive thoughts get to make you do your compulsions. First of all, congrats on doing ERP and being able to sit with your thoughts and not react to them. As Anonymous said, not giving into your compulsions is definitely key to making progress and it will take some time. And I wholeheartedly agree that you should be easy on yourself as you progress, especially if/when a slip up occurs as well as celebrate and be proud of every step you take towards taking your time and your life back from the OCD bully. Your feelings are perfectly normal and just means you are progressing, and depending on outside stressors or the particular compulsion you are trying to not give in to, that feeling of something not being right or off may be greater or lesser. Either way it means you are taking the food away from the OCD bully and that is a good thing and another reason to be proud of yourself. Keep up the good work, stay strong and best wishes.
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- Date posted
- 25w ago
Everything feels so real. I think learning about non-offending pedophiles has really screwed with me. I feel like I’m not even doing compulsions anymore like I genuinely cannot remember if I do them or not and the groinal responses are messing with me. I keep having intrusive dreams and I’m in that half asleep state and I feel nothing after that or I feel weird like a good weird, I don’t know. It’s a really weird feeling when I get those thoughts but I don’t like them, I don’t think. All I know is, I keep seeking reassurance and I feel like I don’t have OCD because the way I feel, like the way I get worked up isn’t the same as others. Whenever I try to watch a show, like 9-1-1 or daily dose of sunshine, I feel like I’m watching something I shouldn’t be. Or if I’m just on my phone, I feel like something is going to happen. I feel red flags whenever I’m on my phone, like somehow cp will appear. I know that OCD is the doubting disorder but my god, this is just crazy. I feel like I’m going crazy. Everything is just nonstop, it’s so constant and I’m genuinely scared that I’ll do something when I get out of my room. I don’t know anymore, this whole OCD thing is just making me lose my mind.
- Date posted
- 21w ago
does anyone else use the fact that they dont like their thoughts as a confirmation/compulsion, and or when you go through something stressful with little to no compulsions take it as a sign they actually like it? is this apart of usual rumination or am I expirencing something different? and how do you deal with it?
- Date posted
- 8w ago
I’ve noticed that I’m somewhat happier also ignoring my thoughts than I am instead of doing compulsions (I’m sick and tired of being sick and tired atp) but I’ve heard you’re technically supposed to do erp rather than pushing under the rug. But idk if I have a thought I just refuse to think about it again and im fine even if I want to do compulsions
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