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@callmekeek NOCD offers educational sessions for loved ones. The sessions are called “NOCD 411” and help loved ones learn more about OCD. Loved ones can reach out to our CareTeam at care@nocdhelp.com for more information or to schedule. I hope that helps!
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I highly recommend sharing helpful resources for your family. It’s up to each person if they want to share specific themes, or just share general information about OCD. Starting with general information is usually a good place to start. Always make sure you are ONLY using valid and clinically-sound sources like NOCD’s blog articles, NOCD’s YouTube channel videos, or IOCDF at iocdf.org for instance
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As someone whose lived with ocd for 20+ years, I’ll give you a dose of advice that may seem unconventional. Sometimes you have to accept that certain people in your life will not or are unwilling to understand your OCD. It’s always worth offering educational resources and opening a discussion, but it’s never worth compromising your progress by stressing yourself over others. I’ve learned it’s important to identify your support network, and then set a healthy boundary with others.
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You can find grear articles about any type of OCD online. You could share those links with them. And/or, you could ask your therapist to explain it to them. It might help, if a medical professional explains your struggles to them.
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There are some videos out there that could be helpful including videos of how family members can help loved ones with OCD. Look up Nathan Peterson on YouTube if you haven’t yet. He’s a LCSW with several videos on many topics.
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So I recently got diagnosed with ocd, and due to me growing up in a household who doesn’t believe in it I have an even harder time grasping if it’s a real diagnosis or not. I know it is but my parents still get mad at me when I tell them not to reassure me and things like that, since they don’t want to understand me anytime. They always put the blame on me and they do everything and how I’m ungrateful. I am very greatful but I told my mom to try to understand this condition but she refuses to, my dad just completely ignores that it exists. It’s just hard to cope around it and not be stuck in a loop, I’m leaving in a few months after graduating so hopefully that will help. It’s hard when my parents don’t want to try to understand what I go through.
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No one understands what I’m going through. My husband used to be my biggest supporter but not we’re separated and I try to explain to my parents why I’m upset when I have panic attacks but they don’t get it. For Example: This morning I told my mom I was having a panic attack. And she just kept asking “why? What’s wrong? U were so happy yesterday. When I said, I didn’t know I just was having this panic attack. She did not understand one bit. She just kept asking me why why why? And I’m like I don’t know. 😭 it makes me just wanna stay away from everyone and just isolate because people don’t understand. I know it’s not their fault. I’m actually glad they don’t understand because that means they’re not going through the pain I’m going through.
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Listen, I totally get it. It’s hard to hear a loved one obsessing over small, insignificant things. My mom tries to be supportive, but she gets so mad when I tell her what’s on my mind, and she just yells at me and says I’m crazy for thinking like this. So, I just sent her this, and I hope it helps: Mom, I know it’s really hard, but when I’m suffering with OCD thoughts, all I need is sympathy. Getting mad at someone for having OCD is like getting mad at someone for having a head injury. Please understand that I can’t help it, or else I would stop it. I need someone to say, “I’m so sorry that’s bothering you this much. It must be so overwhelming. It must be so hard to cope with this.” You could even ask me questions, like “What does it feel like? How much are you thinking about this? What helps you feel better?” I just need someone to validate my experience and sympathize, not tell me that I’m crazy or say my problems aren’t real. I’m aware these thoughts are crazy — that’s why I feel so alone and sad and scared. When you tell me my thoughts are crazy, it makes me feel even more like a freak. Sometimes, I just need someone to hold my hand and tell me I’m not alone.
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