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i know how it can be with the “am i crushing/in love or is this just me obsessing again”, but usually with ocd its like, you get a crush and then your ocd amps it up real good. i had about a year where i was ocd free, and during that time i fell in love with a guy, and for the first time it wasnt love, anxiety and obsessing mixed altogether. when ive been in love with ocd, yes, ive been anxious and obsessive about it, but still in love outside of all that. my advice is to go for it. my ocd got a hell of a flare up when i started “listeninh” to it and coordinating my life around anxiety. fuck ocd and anxiety! live your life as if youve never known ocd and anxiety!
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Absolutely! Live your life the way you want to! Don’t let OCD get in the way! This isn’t the exactly the same but recently my boyfriend and I have seriously been considering getting a dog. Well we applied for a puppy and got confirmation back that they want pictures of our apartment and everything to verify our living arrangements. This means we’ve moved on to the next step. I was excited and then immediately terrified. All the what if’s about the dog and really wanting her and what if it’s a mistake etc came flooding in. A friend on here told me to go for it! I know I want the dog but I’m so so scared. Well, if this happens with the adoption we are getting a puppy. As terrified as I am, I will not let my OCD tell me not to do it!
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ohhh like that! my advice on that would be always act like you dont have ocd. its kind of like walking all over ocd and not mindinh it. that way, it starts to have less impact. and also, havinh anxiety and ocd isnt something that makes you less worthy of love. and in the end, if someone cant take that on, thats up for them to decide. but i wouldnt let it hold me back
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Thanks everyone, but I kind of meant like... would it be fair for me to enter a relationship with someone and put them through the struggles of dating someone with semi-severe OCD? I know everyone has baggage, but...
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Yes. You deserve to be happy just like everyone else. As long as you find the right person they will accept you, OCD and all!
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- 24w
I’ve had so many moments of clarity with my OCD that I love my boyfriend and I’m beyond willing to go through this to be better and be with him. in the back of mind I’ve in a way known I was at least somewhat sexually attracted to women (I’m a woman) since the start of the ocd it was always like “okay. Fine, but I don’t want to date a girl” I only just realized this after the ocd started, I never really argued with this. my ocd has always revolved around if I’m romantically interested in women and not men. I’ve done so many compulsions through this year and a half and 9 times out of 10 have come to the conclusion that I don’t want to be with a woman romantically. I always end up feeling like I know I love my boyfriend. But the doubts don’t stop about whether I want to spend my life with a woman instead, my heart literally breaks to think of not being with my bf and imagining him with someone else. I don’t want to be with a woman I know deep down somewhere underneath the anxiety that that’s not what I want. It doesn’t feel natural for me, unfulfilling. I want to tell my boyfriend about the possible sexual attraction to women (ik it’s still ocd related) but I’m scared that once I tell him, I’ll realize that I actually do want to be with women and not with him. Ugh I’ve spent hours today ruminating about this after being solid in my commitment with him for a little while, I’m stuck in this loop and idk how to get out right now
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I’m 25 and never ever thought this before my soocd relapse. I have a bf of 5 years. Never been a high libido kinda girl. Don’t get me wrong I do get turned on by my bf but not like every day you know? - That had always been in the back of my head, is this normal and ok? But my ocd has latched onto the most scariest what if EVER. My brain is now saying How do you know you won’t prefer to sleep and kiss girls if you haven’t tried it: and it’s that unknown that is scaring the shit out of me. I DONT AND NEVER HAVE wanted to sleep / kiss a girl. But now my intrusive thoughts is all I think about!!! I don’t want I don’t want I don’t want??? So why does my brain think BUT WHAT IF??? I know ocd thrives off uncertainty which is why I think this is happening? But I don’t wanna find out or work it out because all I want is to be with my bf and marry him!! Is this just the epitome of OCD?
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- 15w
So I identify as a lesbian and I am in a committed relationship with a wonderful girl. But i’m stressing that I have crushes on boys I go to school with. I get anxious around them, which I think I mistake for excitement. I obsess over it in my head which confuses me a lot. Idk I also never think about them sexually or romantically but I think about them often which is scaring me. Any advice?
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