- Username
- Truelle
- Date posted
- 6y ago
You’re doing awesomely! Just remember this is only temporary... “it’ll all work out in the end, and if it hasn’t worked out, it’s not the end” make sure to, in the chaos of things, do small things that help you feel that sense of stability or routine... ie: if you’re moving locally, go to a familiar coffee shop and remember you’ll still have some same old spots, if you’re moving further away, call a friend or watch a favorite movie and remember that you’ll be able to do this where you’re going too! I’ve moved a lot and focusing on the excitement (new restaurants, museums to check out) helped me a lot
If it helps you to know I just went through some major transitions like partner moving to another state, unexpected break up, career shift, possible move on the horizon... I completely fell apart... I had to get away from the surroundings I was in and go back to something safe and comforting. I chose to visit family for a little bit, I found it comforting. But also it’s hard when they don’t understand ocd or depression and when you have both it can be a challenge. But now coming out the other side it was the little things that helped... seeing my family when I was hurting or having difficulty, calling that friend, finding this chat room, taking a walk in nature, volunteering, really trying to refocus and listen when someone is talking( purposefully and intentionally getting myself out of my own head). Listening to music, and doing some self care :) I hope this helps, you have a fresh start!! Let’s say your adrenaline is rushing you are starting to feel anxious... well you could tell yourself you are anxious... or... you could tell yourself you are excited. Worth a shot? :)
I’m so sorry you’re going through this and I don’t know any advice to help you, I just wanted to say congratulations on getting this far. Just keep going as best that you can and think how proud you’ll be once you make it. Sending you the best of luck :)
Thank you @Phie I do appreciate your positive words and encouraging support. ??
“Most obstacles melt away when we make up our minds to boldly walk through them.” You got support. You aren’t alone. You got this ?
Going through a really stressful time right now. I am looking for a job, dealing with financial stress, I was in a minor car accident a week ago (no one was hurt), and I really haven’t been doing great emotionally or mentally since my grandpa passed away the end of last year. Does anyone have any tips for managing stress when you are dealing with a lot of life changes? I feel like it is sending my OCD into hyper drive, I fixate on every little thing, think about all the what ifs, and worry about every perceived mistake I make and how it is going to affect my situation. I feel like this is caused by all the stress and pressure that is on me right now. If anyone has any tips or forms of stress relief they find particularly effective that would be amazing.
Hey all! I just joined this app and wanted to ask for your thoughts and encouragement on something I’ve been experiencing lately. (*long post ahead*) I’ve had an OCD diagnosis for about 2 years now, along with generalized anxiety, depersonalization symptoms, and depression diagnoses since my teens (I’m 24). Been lucky to have great family and healthcare that have helped me get out of some very dark places. I’m currently on a very high dose of Prozac, a smaller dose of Wellbutrin, and have been in therapy pretty consistently since my late teens. Life is pretty good....I’m in grad school and am doing well socially and academically. I am moving out to another part of the country to do an internship for 10 weeks, starting this Friday. But with all of this great and wonderful stuff in life, I have definitely noticed my OCD getting worse, despite my meds and self care. I’ve been having more obsessive fears and doing the rituals and compulsions to soothe those fears. It’s taking up much more of my mental space than it had for the past 2 years or so. I think part of it is the big change of moving to a new place temporarily, finishing my first year of grad school, and going from being insanely busy to having a month of downtime that is just now wrapping up. I’m getting scared that things are going to get really bad again — so far I’ve been managing with mindfulness and acceptance, and reading up on tactics for managing intrusive thoughts and accompanying compulsions. But I am so afraid that things will get to be into the dark and horrible place they were in 2 years ago. My OCD has been really mild the past few years, since I started the meds, and to feel it flare up again is really REALLY distressing. It makes me scared that the meds aren’t working, or that all the thoughts and fears are real. I know this isn’t the truth, logically, but my OCD and anxiety are running with it. I’m just wondering if anyone else has experienced this (change-related flare ups and the fears accompanied by them) and has tools to manage relapse or flare ups. Thanks in advance :) :)
I’m moving to college for the first time tomorrow and I’m really nervous, and I think the stress of that is making my mind spiral and look for anything else to worry about - my obsessions. Has anyone else dealt w this and if so any tips? :(
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