- Username
- atardecer
- Date posted
- 71d ago
- Young adults with OCD
- BIPOC with OCD
- LGBTQ+ with OCD
- Relationship OCD
Relationship advice
Hello. I really need some advice :( so I was in a relationship with someone I was friends with for over 4 years and we ended up breaking up because my ocd was rlly bad/I was controlling and harming their mental health. A few months later we are friends and she keeps hanging out with this roomate who did weird stuff while we dated and I always felt weird about. She’s told me it’s because she has no one else to hang out with and she’s in a new city alone. But I find it super hard to not feel so hurt by it every time (it tears me apart) and when I bring it up she gets super anxious and feels controlled. We agreed to keep a door open for a potential future relationship and this situation makes me want to close it and it’s just so painful. I don’t know what to do/or if I’m in the wrong. Please help.