Jazz19
- Date posted
- 5y ago
FernandoVFernandoV
- Date posted
- 5y ago
Just as people are never 100% germ free or 100% good or bad, people are not 100% straight. --- I know this might trigger a bunch of teens here but that is precisely my point. There are sexual attractions, romantic attractions, gender identities, sexual preferences - an ample range of tastes and flavors. As humans we love boxes and classifications but they are truly limited for our understanding. You cannot make choices based on what you are but what you WANT. It's like saying that I won't eat until I know 100% sure that I made the right choice at the restaurant and I know for sure my hands are 100% germ free.
Curls.90Curls.90
- Date posted
- 5y ago
That is so true and I think as you get older this makes more sense. And the thing is with being a teenager, you're hormones are raging you're confused about lots of things which is perfectly normal. Give yourself chance to mature and grow as a person. Im not against being with a women I have abit of curiosity about it despite only ever being with men. But what you said about different attractions is so true.
FernandoVFernandoV
- Date posted
- 5y ago
Human sexuality is waaay more complex than those labels. Labels are the most pernicious thing for someone with OCD.
Curls.90Curls.90
- Date posted
- 5y ago
Queer is not a term I like I feel like it's mocking gay people
Curls.90Curls.90
- Date posted
- 5y ago
And hetro is straight. How come you deleted your last post?
cizciz
- Date posted
- 5y ago
I believe it’s a spectrum and we are all at different ends I would say I’m bisexual if someone asked But I would say I’m sexually attracted to Boys:70% Girls:30% And emotionally attracted to Boys:40% Girls:60% And that probably changes a lot but there is no need to put labels on things Your you not bisexual
AnonymousAnonymous
- Date posted
- 5y ago
Bisexual is when you are attracted to males and females.
MagmarMagmar
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- OCD Conqueror
- Date posted
- 5y ago
Bisexual - attracted to both genders Gay - male attracted to males Lesbian - female attracted to females Queer - not heterosexual Heterosexual - attracted to the opposite gender only
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flippy15
- Date posted
- 23w ago
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I just want to know the difference of someone who is gay vs someone who is just questioning bc of ocd. Like would you hear I’m gay im gay over and over and over again in your head but it didn’t feel right? But when I say this is a waste of my time im of course straight it feels like im lying but I know im not attracted to women at all I am certain of that. But picking a label is what i can’t settle on so this is my ocd or not
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