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- Jazz19
- Date posted
- 5y ago
Just as people are never 100% germ free or 100% good or bad, people are not 100% straight. --- I know this might trigger a bunch of teens here but that is precisely my point. There are sexual attractions, romantic attractions, gender identities, sexual preferences - an ample range of tastes and flavors. As humans we love boxes and classifications but they are truly limited for our understanding. You cannot make choices based on what you are but what you WANT. It's like saying that I won't eat until I know 100% sure that I made the right choice at the restaurant and I know for sure my hands are 100% germ free.
That is so true and I think as you get older this makes more sense. And the thing is with being a teenager, you're hormones are raging you're confused about lots of things which is perfectly normal. Give yourself chance to mature and grow as a person. Im not against being with a women I have abit of curiosity about it despite only ever being with men. But what you said about different attractions is so true.
Human sexuality is waaay more complex than those labels. Labels are the most pernicious thing for someone with OCD.
Queer is not a term I like I feel like it's mocking gay people
And hetro is straight. How come you deleted your last post?
I believe it’s a spectrum and we are all at different ends I would say I’m bisexual if someone asked But I would say I’m sexually attracted to Boys:70% Girls:30% And emotionally attracted to Boys:40% Girls:60% And that probably changes a lot but there is no need to put labels on things Your you not bisexual
Bisexual is when you are attracted to males and females.
Bisexual - attracted to both genders Gay - male attracted to males Lesbian - female attracted to females Queer - not heterosexual Heterosexual - attracted to the opposite gender only
Are there any demisexuals on here that struggle with SO-OCD (I'm a straight woman, or so I think I am). It's a struggle to know what's OCD and what isn't
Hi everyone, Lately, I’ve been feeling confused and anxious about my sexuality, which has been challenging to navigate. I’ve always identified as straight and am currently in a happy relationship with my boyfriend. However, I’ve recently started questioning if I might have some attraction to women, which has caused me a lot of anxiety. To be clear, I’ve never experienced romantic or physical attraction toward women in real life, but I have watched lesbian porn in the past. Now, I can’t help but worry that this might mean I’m attracted to women after all. On top of this, I’ve noticed a decrease in my sexual desire for my boyfriend, which only intensifies my concerns about both my sexual orientation and my relationship. This confusion is something I’ve never dealt with before, and it’s starting to take an emotional toll. If anyone has experienced something similar, I would really appreciate any advice or insights on how you worked through it. What helped you find clarity? Someone mentioned that my anxiety might be OCD-related, though I’m not familiar with OCD in this context. I’d love to hear from anyone with experience in navigating these kinds of thoughts or anxiety. I’m open to any personal stories, resources, or guidance on how to approach this situation, both for myself and in communication with my partner. I want to better understand what I’m feeling without being overwhelmed by fear. Thank you in advance for your support!
Hi everyone, Lately, I’ve been feeling confused and anxious about my sexuality, which has been challenging to navigate. I’ve always identified as straight and am currently in a happy relationship with my boyfriend. However, I’ve recently started questioning if I might have some attraction to women, which has caused me a lot of anxiety. To be clear, I’ve never experienced romantic or physical attraction toward women in real life, but I have watched lesbian porn in the past. Now, I can’t help but worry that this might mean I’m attracted to women after all. On top of this, I’ve noticed a decrease in my sexual desire for my boyfriend, which only intensifies my concerns about both my sexual orientation and my relationship. This confusion is something I’ve never dealt with before, and it’s starting to take an emotional toll. If anyone has experienced something similar, I would really appreciate any advice or insights on how you worked through it. What helped you find clarity? Someone mentioned that my anxiety might be OCD-related, though I’m not familiar with OCD in this context. I’d love to hear from anyone with experience in navigating these kinds of thoughts or anxiety. I’m open to any personal stories, resources, or guidance on how to approach this situation, both for myself and in communication with my partner. I want to better understand what I’m feeling without being overwhelmed by fear. Thank you in advance for your support!
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