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- Jazz19
- Date posted
- 5y ago
- Username
- FernandoVFernandoV
- Date posted
- 5y ago
Just as people are never 100% germ free or 100% good or bad, people are not 100% straight. --- I know this might trigger a bunch of teens here but that is precisely my point. There are sexual attractions, romantic attractions, gender identities, sexual preferences - an ample range of tastes and flavors. As humans we love boxes and classifications but they are truly limited for our understanding. You cannot make choices based on what you are but what you WANT. It's like saying that I won't eat until I know 100% sure that I made the right choice at the restaurant and I know for sure my hands are 100% germ free.
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- Curls.90Curls.90
- Date posted
- 5y ago
That is so true and I think as you get older this makes more sense. And the thing is with being a teenager, you're hormones are raging you're confused about lots of things which is perfectly normal. Give yourself chance to mature and grow as a person. Im not against being with a women I have abit of curiosity about it despite only ever being with men. But what you said about different attractions is so true.
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- FernandoVFernandoV
- Date posted
- 5y ago
Human sexuality is waaay more complex than those labels. Labels are the most pernicious thing for someone with OCD.
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- Curls.90Curls.90
- Date posted
- 5y ago
Queer is not a term I like I feel like it's mocking gay people
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- Curls.90Curls.90
- Date posted
- 5y ago
And hetro is straight. How come you deleted your last post?
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- cizciz
- Date posted
- 5y ago
I believe it’s a spectrum and we are all at different ends I would say I’m bisexual if someone asked But I would say I’m sexually attracted to Boys:70% Girls:30% And emotionally attracted to Boys:40% Girls:60% And that probably changes a lot but there is no need to put labels on things Your you not bisexual
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- AnonymousAnonymous
- Date posted
- 5y ago
Bisexual is when you are attracted to males and females.
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- MagmarMagmar
- Date posted
- 5y ago
Bisexual - attracted to both genders Gay - male attracted to males Lesbian - female attracted to females Queer - not heterosexual Heterosexual - attracted to the opposite gender only
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- Ocd Won’t be...
- Date posted
- 5y ago
Can someone explain to me the difference between HOCD and questioning your sexuality? I see several posts regarding fears about having romantic feelings towards the same sex and I wonder if that really means someone is gay and afraid to admit it to themselves? I’m not asking to be offensive, I really just don’t understand that form of OCD.
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- jett
- Date posted
- 4y ago
I’m not trying to be mean or anything just genuinely curious for those who have HOCD and are afraid they might be bisexual...couldn’t you just continue to live as a straight person I’m not sure where the fear comes from...being worried you might be gay makes sense because that would actually change your life but being bisexual doesn’t do anything. Sorry if I’m coming off as insensitive but can someone explain this
- Username
- Redrose
- Date posted
- 1y ago
In need of queer advice!
Hello, I’m 22F. I have always had crushes on men and have dated men. I never really CARED for sex much but I would still do it. I watch lesbian porn or anything that stimulates the girl more/ what I would enjoy. I fantasize about getting with a girl/ wanting to do things with a girl because of how good it would feel. However, I’ve been in a relationship with a guy for 2 years. Before him, I used to really like another guy. I can’t differentiate between whether I am lesbian, BI, or just straight with normal fantasies. I can’t think/ imagine myself in a relationship with a girl but I guess it wouldn’t be bad to get with a girl at the same time. Sex is just sex. However, I started having obsessive thoughts about my sexuality 2 years ago since then I’ve been diagnosed with health anxiety also. I don’t know, could it be that I’m just not that into my current boyfriend that it makes me question my sexuality? Is it it possible that he might not be so attractive to me that it makes me feel / think what if I am not straight? How can you differentiate between intrusive OCE or the reality / truth of something?? I don’t recall ever having a crush on a girl but I still see certain men and acknowledge how good looking they are and imagine being with them.
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