Brynnie Bear
- Date posted
- 1y
I don’t understand
I don’t know why people don’t respond to me I feel like they think I’m being annoying. I would appreciate if they would just give me a call or text me
zoedoylezoedoyle
- Date posted
- 1y
Feel that!! I guarantee your not being annoying though. As I get older I realize I put more effort in people than they give me. So maybe put in the same effort I’m not sure if that’s good advice but maybe something that can help you. Also something that’s been helping very much recently is “don’t chase,attract.” let people come to you. That will show you who’s truly there for you.
OCDisHellOCDisHell
- Date posted
- 1y
I think many of us and I've said this before are Hyper Sensitive individuals that take any relationship whether that be friendship, family, dating, etc. to heart. We value these relationships greatly and if they are broken its heartbreaking. I used to view my friends as "brothers" and as I've grown older and they've started their lives with kids and wives, I rarely hear from them and it's still even at an older age heartbreaking for me. However, I'm pretty confident they don't feel the same otherwise they'd reach out. It's not to say that it's deliberate but it still hurts.
OCDisHellOCDisHell
- Date posted
- 1y
I should add that my view on this kind of goes as follows in its most simplistic form: Me: These guys are my brothers Them: Yeah I used to hang out with him The difference is the value placed on the relationship. And I'd guess the part that makes the difference is they aren't hypersensitive. I'm sure they'd still be there if I truly needed them but maybe not. I hope this helps. God bless.
AnonymousAnonymous
- Date posted
- 1y
I second what the person above said. I used to get so bothered by friends and family not responding at times. It really comes down to who cares enough but also worrying about taking care of you and loving yourself or figuring out how to. Because ultimately, we're with ourselves 100% of the time. If that makes any sense.
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- Date posted
- 10w
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Anonymousssssss
- Date posted
- 7w
Can I talk to someone?
I have something that’s been on my mind but my post isn’t getting any interaction. Only offer advice if you’re willing to respond please!!! People have asked me in the comments to share something and I do and they never answer which makes my mental even worse
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