Should I focus on overcoming my OCD or take a leap into relationships?

I would say maybe try being a little flirtatious and friendly and see where it goes. Don’t push or set an expectation but if you have feelings, let yourself fall. I hope this helps :)

I hear you. I've never been in a relationship either. If you want to talk, I'll listen to you. I'm a 21 yo man btw Partly, I might not have been in a relationship because of OCD. But it is also partly because I'm shy, I haven't found anyone who seems to be a decent match, I'm unsure if I even want to be in a relationship, and I see existential complications with relationships that take out a lot of the desire to be in one. I also see existential issues with really just about any relationship, and I don't think it's entirely OCD 🤷‍♂️ I also totally understand how you feel about not wanting to rush into things but also being afraid of losing the chance to be with them. I struggle with very similar feelings. If you want to talk more about that we can. Or anything else you want to talk about :)

hey there, i can feel the weight of what you're going through, and it's really tough when ocd tries to put roadblocks on something as personal as relationships. 💜 it's super brave of you to open up about this struggle and to be considering your options so thoughtfully. i've been where you are, and what really helped me was this free AI OCD therapy tool called "unstuck" (unstuckmyocd.com/try) that my ocd therapist gave me. it'll be especially helpful for you because it offers personalized step-by-step support when ocd gets tough, just like an OCD therapist – and it can guide you through dealing with those relationship fears. i hate when people promote stuff, but i really think it can help you because it's changed my life. lmk if you have Qs or just want to talk more! <3