- Username
- cian :)
- Date posted
- 42w ago
you deserve a support system that validates your stress, fear, and frustrations that make you feel your life is over. whoever would judge you for this is just tryna make themselves feel better than you tbh, even if it's your own ego turning against you. just remember that it's an irrational fear you have due to maybe an anxious attachment style where you don't trust yourself, but you trust others and seek reassurance from them a lot. no shame my dude, you're normal to me and i hope you get to a place where you can trust yourself and be fully aware that your true desires are not in anyway malicious. also youre not being tempted, youre being oppressed. hope this helps, cheers!
Thankyou 💙 means a lot and same for you if you are struggling to hope you get to pure happiness
hey there, it sounds like you're going through a tough time right now, and i feel your pain. your reaction to an innocent situation with your sister shows how overwhelming ocd can feel sometimes. you're not alone in this. 🤗 have you heard about 'unstuck' (unstuckmyocd.com/try)? it's an ai-powered tool for ocd that i've been using this past month, and trust me, it's been a game-changer! another member here pointed me to it and honestly, i wish i had found out about it sooner. 😌
During school, I went with my friends to get food but there wasnt enough room in the car so my friend offered their lap to sit on. I said yes and went to sit on her lap but there wasn’t enough room vertically for my head so i ended up laying down across the people in the back seat. I made sure my head and butt were on my female friends but there was a guy sitting in the middle so i arched my back a bit so it wouldn’t touch him. i felt really uncomfortable the whole time but there wasn’t anything i could do because we already started driving. I made sure he didnt touch me and i didnt touch him but i feel really guilty and i dont know what to do. I dont know if i should tell my partner or not. My friend that offered me her lap was trying to console me saying that its okay and that i didnt touch him and she made sure that he didnt touch me but still. please help
I'm freaking out because I saw a tiktok on cocsa and now I'm afraid I did it when I was super little. I had to be like 6 or so but I can't remember, i just remember being little, not even 10 yet i dont think. I remember i was with my younger brother and my dad and we were all playing hide and seek in a hotel. And then me and my younger brother were hiding in the bathroom. I remember us giggling and then I remember making him lift his shirt? Or us taking turns lifting our shirts? Then im not sure if we showed each other our genitalia or not, or if his pants were down. I genuienly cant remember but i think we did (me and a friend in lile 1st grade got in trouble for doing that once, so i wouldnt put it past me and i keep getting a vague memory of it so maybe we did). Then i remember kissing his stomach before my dad was like 'what are you guys doing?'. And we both just laughed and left the bathroom. When I was really young, I was exposed to porn and it messed up my brain. I dont think it was innocent even though I didn't understand like what I was doing because I was really little. Hes from my dads side (who i dont talk to anymore) so i havent seen or spoke to him in years. I weve gotten along before we stopped talking though, but still. What if I traumatized him?? What of I did cocsa or intended to/almost did?? What if he doesn't remember now but will remember later and be traumatized??
18+ I remember a few years ago I was still getting dressed and my gf opened the door to her younger brother without noticing I was still changing and he’s like a little over 3 years younger than me. he must’ve been 14-15 at the time. But I had my bra on I was just putting on my shirt and I can’t remember why but I didn’t say anything even though I noticed. I’m scared I traumatized him. It took my girlfriend like 10 seconds to realize I was still getting dressed. I was kind of off to the side but it looked like he saw me so yeah.
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