cian :)
- Date posted
- 1y
lightlovelightlove
- Date posted
- 1y
you deserve a support system that validates your stress, fear, and frustrations that make you feel your life is over. whoever would judge you for this is just tryna make themselves feel better than you tbh, even if it's your own ego turning against you. just remember that it's an irrational fear you have due to maybe an anxious attachment style where you don't trust yourself, but you trust others and seek reassurance from them a lot. no shame my dude, you're normal to me and i hope you get to a place where you can trust yourself and be fully aware that your true desires are not in anyway malicious. also youre not being tempted, youre being oppressed. hope this helps, cheers!
cian :)cian :)
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- 1y
Thankyou š means a lot and same for you if you are struggling to hope you get to pure happiness
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Anonymousssssss
- Date posted
- 16w
Can someone please offer words of advice :(
Why are things so real the first time theyāre in my mind and then when I think about it later itās easier for me to be like wtf?? I was watching a movie earlier and the young girl had developed more in the chest area than the last movie and I felt the desire to check her out so I did. Then later I let myself imagine her having sex and I liked it. But now looking back Iām like ew. The boys in the movie have also developed as the movie went on and I couldnāt help but think that in their real life theyāve probably woken up to boners and s*men and stuff. And looking back itās just ugh. Idk if itās sexual relevance but I genuinely let myself indulge in these thoughts and groinal responses and I remember thinking to myself I donāt want to be attracted to little kids and how do I stop myself (everyone has attractive qualities so in younger boys I see man like qualities). Idk I need help. I wouldnāt type this out if I truly believe I was messed up but Iām still scared
andrewt_
- User type
- OCD Conqueror
- Date posted
- 9w
This is too much to handle
Iām going to a waterpark with my friend in a few days. And I have very severe harm OCD that causes me to worry Iāll touch someone inappropriately. This is going to sound so fucking silly but because my hips moved during a hug one time Iām afraid Iām gonna fucking thrust on someone (bruh wtf lol) and anytime I walk by someone my hips will move a bit or my leg will stretch out too far when Iām walking and Iāll feel like I fucking like it. And Iāll think I was just trying to do a thrust or something (it sounds silly when I type it out and to be fair it is lmao) and Iāll freak out. I honestly donāt know what to do. I feel like a fucking psycho.
ivefailed.
- Date posted
- 5w
im afraid and alone
wrote a very triggering post. this wasnt supposed to happen. im starting to believe that i'm a ****phile that suppress its feelings. "Our brains are wired to respond to certain stimuli, like attractiveness, quickly and automatically. This can happen even if we don't consciously want to feel that way. In your case, the combination of the trigger and your brain's automatic reaction might have contributed to the discomfort you felt." but it's wrong. it wasnt supposed to happen. it shouldn't be allowed in my brain to perceive the look of attractiveness in the legs and body of someone that looked so young... i didnt have desire for it though. i was disturbed and distressed when it happened and as i felt and noticed this perception and reaction. it's crazy to think that none of this would have happened if i didnt trigger myself in 2021 at 16 years old.
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