Overthinking this

I just reposted this on my TikTok but feel like I need to unrepost it (I do this with every post and it has to feel right and like it’s in the right place) but I started getting thoughts because I know my bf is going to see it like I don’t want him to think it’s about him and I’m getting scared it’s going to hurt his feelings Because obviously I would never shoot a man but it’s making me think does that mean I would and that I’m a bad person for reposting like I’m getting scared that I want to hurt him or something But it’s just a TikTok thing that’s going round about the “man or a bear” But now I feel like a bad person for having an opinion but I never commented on this trend before

User11123

Date posted: 46w ago

Hi! I completely relate to overthinking decisions like this. Maybe there is an in-between that you could try, that would be less anxiety than leaving the post up indefinitely but would still be pushing back a little bit against the OCD and proving to yourself that you can handle the anxiety. What if you were to post it for say one hour, and tell yourself that you won’t undo it for at least that hour, so that you can sit with the anxiety for that amount of time? I find that there is usually a middle ground between fully doing something that causes me intense anxiety, but not fully giving into the OCD. Sometimes that middle step can help us get used to the anxiety so that the next time, we can handle a little bit more. Best of luck to you!

ambermayx

Date posted: 46w ago

@User11123 This is a good idea Thankyou!

ambermayx

Date posted: 46w ago

I’m trying not to look through my reposts again for the 100th time to sort them out so they feel right like feel like I need to take some off ugh why do I stress about this so much

User11123

Date posted: 46w ago

And I’m sorry that you’re going through this - it’s such an awful feeling. You’re not alone.

ellangical

Date posted: 46w ago

Literally EVERY time I repost a TikTok I do a whole debate with myself if I should’ve reposted or not , it makes me so anxious if I post a tiktok that I feel like others could misinterpret 😭 i made myself feel better by making a second account where I don’t follow my friends so I just repost anything and don’t worry about it

ambermayx

Date posted: 46w ago

@ellangical Literally I just overthink it so much

ambermayx

Date posted: 46w ago

I took it off my repost because it’s causing me too much stress Does anyone else do this like I overthink whether to have certain TikTok’s on my repost Leaving it in my saves and will sort out tomorrow because I need to just relax and read my book I’ve been procrastinating for hours and know I’ll be thinking about it when I’m trying to sleep

ambermayx

Date posted: 46w ago

Now I feel like I should’ve left it and that I’m being dramatic

carol.xxx

Date posted: 24w ago

Harm ocd please respons desperate

Guys it feels so real and im really scared because it feels like i dont care about the thoughts and it feels like im going to do something terrible, its horrific. I am so scared i keep getting urges and images i dont know what to do because i get a whole rush of panic. I think what’s triggered it was my for you page on tiktok, on the Mendez brothers murder cases and The prada guy and im so scared but it feels like im not worried like abt the thoughts or feeling but i am scared pls reply its literally plaguing me in my head idk what to do bc it feels like im gonna do it

King silly

Date posted: 22w ago

Is this ocd?

I’m not saying any of this to be rude or hateful in any way!! Basically, I like this guy and I really love him, but, everytime I look at this one photo of him, I keep noticing he looks unflattering and it makes me worry, because I’m scared what if he’s ugly? And why does that even matter? Why can’t I just love him in peace without having to check his photo to make sure he’s not ugly? Like that sounds really rude and disrespectful and it hurts even more to know that he’s self conscious and I would NEVER want to hurt him so I don’t tell him I check his photo to make sure he’s not ugly, I get anxious when I notice/feel that he is unattractive/unflattering, so I check till I feel certain that I don’t think he’s ugly, why do I even do this? Why does it matter? Why does my brain make it difficult to even look at a photo without worrying, can I be normal? I say “I think he’s cute/I love him” to his photo and my brain is like “nope cuz he’s unattractive” then I get worried and for what??? I ask myself why do I care and I genuinely don’t know

Relationship OCD

1000anonymou...

Date posted: 21w ago

Can someone help me??

I love Terrifier and I love horror movies but I have these intrusive thoughts or fear ever since Terrifier 3 came out and I feel extremely bad about cause it’s not about me. Every time I hear someone talk negatively about the director and creator my brain goes “what if you support that?” Or “What if they’re actually sick in the head for making that movie?” Or “what if you’re a bad person for liking movies with so much blood and gore” or something like “the director is a bad person for making a movie like that you should not be watching that” or “you shouldn’t like that character” and etc. I feel so bad😭 and my ocd brain is asking “is he a bad person” “should I not enjoy this?” Etc. like I can’t enjoy shit with negitave Nancy’s and Joe’s on the internet and shit😞😭

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