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- 52w ago
- Date posted
- 52w ago
Absolutely. This is one of OCD's favourite tactics to make you feel ashamed and can make it really hard to reach out to other people. There is no shame in having thoughts - everybody, even those without OCD experiences unpleasant intrusive thoughts it's just much more unpleasant for those of use who can't shake them due to our OCD. Having a thought does not mean you welcome it or invited it in. My favourite analogy is that intrusive thoughts are like weeds. Yes they're in the garden but that doesn't mean you planted them.
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- 52w ago
Unfortunately OCD is never going to give you certainty. But perhaps it's worth thinking that if these thoughts weren't part of your illness then would you be experiencing this level of distress? Or does your distress suggest that it is likely symptomatic of a mental health condition? Remember the more attention you give the thoughts the more they will thrive so maybe try and let the OCD be and refocus. You're much stronger than your OCD.
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- 52w ago
@Daisyandconfused Absolutely terrifying! But you've identified it as OCD and reached out to try and get help and are clearly trying to do the right thing so you're doing a really good job. Deep breaths and maybe refocusing on a task you enjoy? Keep going šŖ
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- 52w ago
I struggle with this lately with my harm OCD. Ive had them for so long that it doesnāt give me as much anxiety as it used to but now I feel like because I donāt have as much anxiety then the thoughts must be sort of true or that I like them or want them to happen. Truth is if we didnāt have OCD we wouldnāt be having reoccurring intrusive thoughts in the first place. Just remember that.
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- 52w ago
100%. Thatās what Ocd does! Itās the doubt disorder, and the feelings and urges are INDISTINGUISHABLE to your average thoughts and feelings. Makes it all the more fun to deal with š«
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- 16w ago
Lately my OCD has been very horrible, itās been more convincing than ever to the point where Iām genuinely convinced that I like this stuff, when I get a thought, Iāll hear my intrusive thoughts go āoooh, I like that, Iād do that.ā and I just donāt freak out nor feel bad, I just feel like I like it even more, and feel like I would do/act on it and like it, and the feeling is strong and it lingers forever? It genuinely feels like I do, and Iām just lying now, i canāt tell if I make these thoughts worse or anything All I remember mostly just being like confused sometimes when these thoughts happen, but since Iām getting strong emotions that I like it, my brain says that means I did and Iām worried about that being true because I donāt understand nor know Itās like I am resisting to like this stuff now, itās even tougher now than it was before
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- 15w ago
Don't panic, you're still the same girl, your OC gives you a lot of intrusive thoughts that aren't you and that disgust you and scare you and that you don't want and that you don't think are true, and your OC gives you the false feelings.Also, don't forget that whatever comes to mind, whatever intrusive thoughts you have and whatever you feel, is all yours.
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- 15w ago
I struggle so bad with intrusive thoughts. They can be so bad that I'll cry because I KNOW that's not how I feel or want to do. (Too embarrassed to say what they're about) I'll constantly try to figure out why I have them, and constantly figure out what they mean, causing me to constantly circle around and around. I had to get on anxeity meds, which helped a little but the thoughts still happen. How do you help yourself with this? How do you know that you're just not some physcopath? š
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