My father just told me that I’m a bad daughter to him, and in our religion I didn’t get my parents validation, I will go to hell no matter what, so why bother live if I’m going to hell no matter what good I do?
Hey it’s going to be okay, this might seem pretty big in the moment, but his opinion of you isn’t that powerful if you don’t let it bother you or shape the beauty God made you with. Nothing is worth killing yourself over because this life is a gift, and you are too precious to be dead yet. No one’s validations is as important as what you think of and believe about yourself, please remember that. You are always going to stick with yourself, so your opinion should be the highest on the totem pole. You are not going to hell if you don’t receive someone else’s validation, please do not believe something so rash, you can always change religion and not choose to have rules dictate your life rather than pure love. And if you want to find that in totality, you could learn more about the life of Jesus and how he’s changed so many lives and be open to surrendering your life to him. I am a Christian and want Jesus to help me the most but it’s hard to do I’ll admit, but is better than wallowing in my sadness and feeling terrible about things I can’t change. He will help get rid of these awful thoughts I’d you let him. Believe you are going to succeed, and you will. Hang in there 🩷🩷
Jesus loves you.
Jesus died so you can live! Live, live, and live. Only what Jesus feels about you truly matters. Please don’t go! Stay with us! We want you here! And you deserve to be here because Jesus died for you.
Please don’t. validation from others is not your worth.
I'm sorry you're feeling this way. Those thoughts are so difficult to go through, I hear you and I'm listening.
And if you're really thinking about it, please call a crisis hotline. It's completely anonymous and they won't try to find you or even keep track of your phone number. I've used a crisis number before, and I can verify, all they are here for is listening in this moment
I’m having a rough time rn. My parents both told me that they don’t think I could or should be a dr (I’m going to be a sr in college this year). They said that I have too many and too intense of problems to be one - I’ve got OCD, depression, and dermotillomania (skin picking). Normally, I brush things ppl say off pretty easily, but not w my parents. I love them and really care about their opinion. But it’s making me even more depressed, as one of the last things I was holding onto was the thought that I would be able to use my experiences to be an even better dr than I would have been before getting these things. I’ve been suicidal for a long time but I always told myself that I was going to get through this and use it to help ppl. But it’s tearing away my last shreds knowing that not even the ppl I care about the most think I can achieve my dreams. ?
My dad said I should never have been born yesterday. He also wanted to kill himself because of my OCD. I feel heartbroken.
I don't think it's ocd anymore. I'm convinced that I'm going to hell and there's nothing I can do. I don't want to i want to go to heaven. these thoughts are killing me. I can't do this anymore.
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