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What is the #1 thing that helps you fight OCD?
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I keep going about my day as if I have no ocd. What would I do with my time if I wasn’t obsessing? That helps send signals to your brain and body that there’s nothing to fight. I think OCD makes you want to “do” something about it. I see recovery as the absence of doing. It’s BEING. don’t try to act or think your way out of it. Just focus on the present moment and try to be fully present in the thing you were already doing before OCD crept in. I also have found stepping back and observing my ocd like I’m a scientist helps take me out of it. “Hmmm, I noticed that was an uncomfortable thought. My chest feels tight and my mouth is dry. That sucks, but I’ve been through it before”. Acceptance is key.
look back on times when u think something awful was gonna happen and it never did. Think of what bad is happening now, and apply the same thing. "Why was I ever so worried?!"
I imagine me in the future laughing at these thoughts and how unreal they are But what works for me might not work for others!!
Choosing to get my life back
Remembering how my life is without OCD . Remembering that this doesn’t last forever. It always goes away. I just need to give it time for the intrusive thoughts to fade far far away so I can feel like myself again
@Anonymous This has been what has kept me in the fight and even joining NOCD, but almost 3 months of this 24/7, I’m starting to doubt recovery for me
ALSO, guided meditation helps sooo much. Theres many on youtube specific to so many situations. Helps you stay in present moment and not your head. Also working out, whether a walk, physical activity helps so much.
This is something new I’ve been trying which I have found works quite effective for me lately - when my OCD is triggered by something (in my case contamination OCD) instead of immediately acting on the urge to react to the response (in my case wash my hands/get clean) I instead sit with the feeling for a while and acknowledge the discomfort. Instead of immediately reacting I give myself time to acknowledge what happened and ask myself if my reaction is justified and required or not. I then see how long I can go and find after a while the initial panic I felt from the trigger is much smaller and I can continue going about my day. I have only tried this with smaller triggers for me so far but have found it to be quite effective in fighting my OCD :)
Sometimes i think, “I dare you [myself] not to do it [the compulsion].” This can help with ERP, although i would say the number one thing that helps is knowing that my Creator doesn’t want me to live controlled by OCD, and seeing the negative effects it has had helps motivate me to keep going.
When I am ruminating about something, I say to myself, "maybe, maybe not."
This was my response to a bulletin post asking something along the lines of, “what helps you fight back to OCD” and i thought I’d share for a wider audience. I have overcome so much of my OCD and i attribute it to ERP therapy accompanied by all of the following: 1. With every negative thought I am aware of, respond to it by trying to think of the opposite, positive version. Ex, I’m going to fall down the stairs, horribly injured myself, and my life will be forever ruined <-/+> I’m going to walk down the stairs with strength and poise and have a wonderful day and life with the same grace. Even if you don’t believe it, practice the possibility of having different thoughts. You’ll get better and better with practice. 2. Morning journaling following the Artists Way method, definitely check out that book. It’s a workbook of wonderful writing exercises, whether you’re an artist or not. 3. Listening to positive music and not indulging in negative music or content, including signing out of social media for a while. I had to completely “rebrand” the type of music i listened to and it look about 4 years to finally find what didn’t trigger my OCD or rather, brought me peace. So many lyrics are toxic! City Boy by Donkeyboy lifts me up :) 4. Ask positive people you admire what helps them stay positive. Steve Harvey and Snoop Dog surprisingly have good tips. You’ll learn everyone has their own tricks of curating good thoughts and that it’s a constant process for anyone to practice positive mindsets. 5. If I find myself experiencing an exposure that’s distressing me, I try to be aware that I’ve entered an emotional reaction to something that hasn’t happened yet, and I try to soothe myself by observing and asking myself, “does this warrant this much emotional stress?” if yes, feel it, practice tapping, somatic shaking, vagus nerve humming, journaling, exercising, or breathwork. if it doesn’t warrant so much emotional stress, still feel it for a beat, observe, do box breaths, name colors and things you can hear to change your thoughts, and then try to shift your perspective of the situation: ask, if you weren’t controlled by OCD in the situation, how would you ideally handle it? how would someone you admire handle it? breath, try to embody the powerful, ideal version of you or see it as protecting the inner child version of yourself. look up these keywords if you don’t know what they are. 6. HOLOTROPIC BREATHWORK, can’t stress this one enough. Find a studio or classes online to be guided on this incredible, life changing practice. This is not Wim Hoff but it’s similar. Holotropic is the way to go 👍 7. Jarrows Formula MagMind magnesium, period. 8. Abraham Hicks 2005 Orlando Florida Lectures. it’s on YouTube, I cannot stress enough—go listen. 9. Genomind genetic test for anxiety/depression medication to find the best suited treatment for your genetic makeup. After years of working myself, chemically i couldnt completely control my anxiety and after using Genomind, i was able to find the exact medication compatible for me. I’m on Cymbalta and it’s completely changed my life. I don’t experience anxiety anywhere close to what most of my life was like prior. 10. Whether you believe in the universe or God or nothing, trusting that you are protected and there are invisible sources of love protecting and conspiring in your favor, might help. Practice “trust” and that you are safe and will continue to be safe will let you win some fights, start small. Stay away from negativity. Give your OCD a name (mine is named Emily Dickens or Quail woman lol). Recognize when it’s in the drivers seat and that it’s not allowed to anymore! Inner child meditations help too. Fight back by falling in love with yourself. Would you let someone verbally abuse you like OCD does? No, at least not anymore babes. Even if you think you don’t know how to love yourself right now, practice what you would do if you did. Take up ukulele or photography. I hope something here helps you on your mental health journey ❤️ we’re all rooting for you!
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