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- OCD Conqueror
- Date posted
- 14w ago
What is the #1 thing that helps you fight OCD?
Looking for inspiration
Looking for inspiration
I keep going about my day as if I have no ocd. What would I do with my time if I wasn’t obsessing? That helps send signals to your brain and body that there’s nothing to fight. I think OCD makes you want to “do” something about it. I see recovery as the absence of doing. It’s BEING. don’t try to act or think your way out of it. Just focus on the present moment and try to be fully present in the thing you were already doing before OCD crept in. I also have found stepping back and observing my ocd like I’m a scientist helps take me out of it. “Hmmm, I noticed that was an uncomfortable thought. My chest feels tight and my mouth is dry. That sucks, but I’ve been through it before”. Acceptance is key.
look back on times when u think something awful was gonna happen and it never did. Think of what bad is happening now, and apply the same thing. "Why was I ever so worried?!"
I imagine me in the future laughing at these thoughts and how unreal they are But what works for me might not work for others!!
Choosing to get my life back
Remembering how my life is without OCD . Remembering that this doesn’t last forever. It always goes away. I just need to give it time for the intrusive thoughts to fade far far away so I can feel like myself again
@Anonymous This has been what has kept me in the fight and even joining NOCD, but almost 3 months of this 24/7, I’m starting to doubt recovery for me
ALSO, guided meditation helps sooo much. Theres many on youtube specific to so many situations. Helps you stay in present moment and not your head. Also working out, whether a walk, physical activity helps so much.
This is something new I’ve been trying which I have found works quite effective for me lately - when my OCD is triggered by something (in my case contamination OCD) instead of immediately acting on the urge to react to the response (in my case wash my hands/get clean) I instead sit with the feeling for a while and acknowledge the discomfort. Instead of immediately reacting I give myself time to acknowledge what happened and ask myself if my reaction is justified and required or not. I then see how long I can go and find after a while the initial panic I felt from the trigger is much smaller and I can continue going about my day. I have only tried this with smaller triggers for me so far but have found it to be quite effective in fighting my OCD :)
Sometimes i think, “I dare you [myself] not to do it [the compulsion].” This can help with ERP, although i would say the number one thing that helps is knowing that my Creator doesn’t want me to live controlled by OCD, and seeing the negative effects it has had helps motivate me to keep going.
When I am ruminating about something, I say to myself, "maybe, maybe not."
I’m having a big OCD relapse and would like to hear anyone’s tips on how to be present and healthily deal with these intrusive thoughts and the “need” to preform compulsions. Thank you!!
Looking back, I realize I’ve had OCD since I was 7. though I wasn’t diagnosed until I was 30. As a kid, I was consumed by fears I couldn’t explain: "What if God isn’t real? What happens when we die? How do I know I’m real?" These existential thoughts terrified me, and while everyone has them from time to time, I felt like they were consuming my life. By 12, I was having daily panic attacks about death and war, feeling untethered from reality as depersonalization and derealization set in. At 15, I turned to drinking, spending the next 15 years drunk, trying to escape my mind. I hated myself, struggled with my body, and my intrusive thoughts. Sobriety forced me to face it all head-on. In May 2022, I finally learned I had OCD. I remember the exact date: May 10th. Reading about it, I thought, "Oh my God, this is it. This explains everything." My main themes were existential OCD and self-harm intrusive thoughts. The self-harm fears were the hardest: "What if I kill myself? What if I lose control?" These thoughts terrified me because I didn’t want to die. ERP changed everything. At first, I thought, "You want me to confront my worst fears? Are you kidding me?" But ERP is gradual and done at your pace. My therapist taught me to lean into uncertainty instead of fighting it. She’d say, "Maybe you’ll kill yourself—who knows?" At first, it felt scary, but for OCD, it was freeing. Slowly, I realized my thoughts were just thoughts. ERP gave me my life back. I’m working again, I’m sober, and for the first time, I can imagine a future. If you’re scared to try ERP, I get it. But if you’re already living in fear, why not try a set of tools that can give you hope?
Anyone have any good coping strategies when they have an ocd flare up or attack?
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