Annoying!!! So I wake up aroused I get these dreams and now I feel like a r because it’s like what if my brother was doing something to me while I was sleeping and I didn’t care and just went back to sleep it’s so weird like why I keep getting aroused in my sleep
hey! sometimes it just happens, but if u think it’s ur brother who makes u feel that way, why don’t u try sleeping outside ur house (and without ur brother, ofc) and confirm?
@eiinnaar He’s 8
@eiinnaar You think it might still be possible because I know he’s a kid but I’m suspicious
@Idontknow If he’s 8 I doubt you’re brother is doing anything. And if he is doing something you need to get him to a psychologist quickly because that’s a symptom of sexual assault. Your brother might actually be in a lot of danger right now. If you suspect this and he’s only 8 years old I would schedule a psychiatrist as quickly as possible.
@SAGUI I told my psychiatrist about this situation. She mentioned that he’s only 8, but I’m unsure if he’s actually doing anything wrong. When I ask him if I did something, he says no, which makes it feel like the blame shifts between us. My thoughts are all cazy, and I don’t know what I’m dealing with, but I’ve considered the possibility of paranoid schizophrenia.
@SAGUI I always tell my therapist too and I don’t know I’m just suspicious and I think every guy wants to harm me and I get upset because even my brother wants to harm me?
@SAGUI I’m going to ask if nobody harms him because I worry he’s a kid I feel bad
@Idontknow If he’s 8, I don’t think so sweetie
@eiinnaar I sound crazy I know it’s like logical to me for some reason
@Idontknow No, don’t blame u!!! OCD sometimes takes control, it’s okay🫶🏻
That’s pretty scary, I’ll admit. Yeah, I would just do what the person above me said to do. That’ll help you. Just try staying away from your brother and seeing if the same thing happens. Sometimes you just get aroused after you sleep. Happens to me all the time and I get scared and then I have to remind myself, “Hey, this happens.” But I’m a man so maybe it’s different for women.
@SAGUI I don’t know what to think
Sexual relevance will get us every single time, it doesn't matter the content. Something sexually relevant is always going to induce SOME sort of response, no matter how extreme. It's just our biology, and OCD of course. If you try to NOT get aroused, you will end up getting aroused, it's just how the brain works.
@YouWillSurvive You think I’m a R? You think it’s possible for an 8 year old to harm me?
@Idontknow Well you'll never know for sure if your 8 year old brother was doing anything in the first place. Also dreams are not a solid foundation to base anything off of. They could mean something...but probably not. If the dreams were sexually relevant and you were aroused, that's nothing to blame yourself for.
@Idontknow I dont think that. He is 8 he probably does not even understand those things yet. But I would say that part of erp is sitting with the discomfort of not knowing if it happened or not. You can handle this and these dreams are just dreams. Dreams dont mean anything.
“Pocd” I’m probably out of it but I was having gronial responses yesterday and I was having urges and I went to sleep got intrusive dream and I feel something down there and now I’m wondering if I did something to my brother in my sleep What if I did????? I can’t go out like this I have to buy a camera I’m so worried like it makes me want to check myself to see if I’m still a v
18+ help pleaseeeeeeee What if he’s actually doing it I’m worried So I’m convinced my 9 year old brother is raping me in my sleep i saw that the controller for the lamp was on my bed and I immediately thought he did something to me and he said he didn’t put that on my bed that he woke up and went to my moms room to change and I just got a suspicious feeling like maybe he did do something to me I’m worried about it I’m just thinking every time he tries to get close to me is because he’s doing it for inappropriate reasons and I get weirded out by him being close to me or him looking at me or being talkative to me it’s like I’m very suspicious I want to ask him because I’m worried like you think he could do that to me? (edited)
So I was fantasizing about my crush and when I was into my brother pops up or something and it makes me think I was turned on by him like I’m upset about that now
Share your thoughts so the Community can respond
