I just got broken up with because I am depressed and it was over text. My anxiety and ocd have been awful and he said that can only be an excuse for so long so now Iâm going insane. I am so sick.
đ Iâm sorry to hear that. Break ups are rough, itâs hard for muggles to truly understand our struggles. Things will get better, just have to keep working on yourself.
Clearly heâs selfish and lacks empathy and Iâm sorry this happened. You donât deserve someone breaking up with you while youâre healing. This is a blessing in disguise.
@Tihol I just donât know what to do because I live in such a small town and I have to go home and itâs all going to be reminders of himâŚ
If he leaves you because of that, heâs selfish and didnât love you enough to stay. Itâs gonna be really painful but better that it happened now than later. Iâm so sorry, you will get through this đ
@Sofia_123456789 this made me sob, thank you for this, I realized my worth, and realized what he just showed me. I have fought my ocd for months for this to work and he said I was weighing him down with it⌠so I guess itâs time to work on me instead of relying on him!đ
Many people just aren't equipped or willing to deal with the mental health struggles of others. As painful as it may be to be alone you are here trying to get better. Keep focus on that.
@Cnidaria Thank you for this, I based my whole life on him and now Iâm just at a lost, what now. He said I never got a job I withdrew from my classes due to ocd and he just doesnât want to be with me since I donât try to better myself which wasnât true. Itâs just hard living with ocd especially relationship ocd and u make everything about ur partner.
@alexiađˇ I think OCD is difficult for people to understand unless they've experienced it. It's also very hard on our partners. I know my husband struggles with me at times still. Of course you are sad but I think you can do some real work on your OCD and come out better for it.
@Cnidaria Yes most definitely, he didnât believe in mental illnesses so he said he understood me but didnât⌠so everytime I would say my ocd and anxiety is bad and I didnât want to get out of bed he just thought I wasnât helping myself.
@alexiađˇ I think you already knew he was not a good partner for you. We waste a lot of energy on the wrong people. Now all of that work can go towards your recovery and learning how to live your life despite OCD. It really is possible.
@Cnidaria Thank you for this, so much! I hope youâre doing well and thank you for caring!!
this may sound harsh, but honestly, this may, in the long run, be positive. someone so unempathetic isnât worth your time; you deserve waaay, way better. take this time to get to know yourself better and to heal, and remember that youâre worth more than you think. you can do it!
@sterilebear Thank you so much for this truly. All of these messages are helping so much! Making me realize!
@alexiađˇ of course! i wish you the absolute best :)
"In sickness and in health" This maybe a blessing in disguise
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