SO-OCD and love (pls help)

Turst me i understand you so well. It is the same for me too. When people around me talk about love and relationships, i always imagine myself with a man i love. Marriage for exampe. I keep imagining myself marrying the man of my dreams. But because of OCD a part of me always feels guilty. Like i am lying to myself and i am trying to act like someone i am not. And then the cycle of endless anxiety starts. I want to be like normal women my age thinking of love relationships etc in a normal simple way without analyzing every feeling, every thought and every sensation. It is tiring. But i have come to realize something. Each time these thougts appear, i feel less anxious because a part of me finally started to understand that these are just thought just tricks OCD plays in my mind and not my reality. Because i have learnt to nkt care about these intrusive houghts and the anxiety that comes with them. I let uncertainty sit there and simply say i may be or may be not, whatever. Like i have been practicing non engagement responses without realising. And trust me it works. First you have to stop analyzing everything. It is a bottomless pit. The more you analyze the more afraid and anxious and vulnerable you become. Embrace the anxiety. Know that with these thoughts, comes the anxiety. But it cannot hurt you. It cannot force you to be someone you are not. The thoughts and feelings and sensations or whatever are just simple thoughts like am i actually hungry? Or i am feeling sick etc. Simple thoughts. Just because you thought you might be sick, you don't actually get sick. Thoughts do not hold that power. So stop analyzing yourself and stop fighting with the thoughts. Let them be there. Do not engage. Let the anxiety of the thoughts being there stay. Once it gets bored, it will leave.