- Username
- Freakish
- Date posted
- 6y ago
Get help before it gets worse. I have had dermatillomania forever, I started picking my skin when I was like 10 and I still can’t stop now and it makes me soool self conscious. I wish I talked to someone earlier
Thank you every one who commented on this I’m so glad that I have people supporting me ?
Ugh. ? just because someone is a parent doesn’t suddenly make them know what’s best. Point proven here. It won’t make you feel better in the long run. And I did this and it isn’t about the fact that you won’t go bald, because you can permanently damage areas of your scalp to the point where your hair will no longer return, and/or you could have what happened to me where you develop cysts under neath the scalp and this can lead to infectections or may have to be removed by a doctor. I would advise that you put a rubber band on your wrist and pull at it and let it snap back against your skin everytime you feel like pulling out your hair. My therapist told me to try this and it helped.
A lot of the boys in my class at school flick rubber bands at each other so...but I’ll try it thank for the advice
Im only 11 but whatever makes you feel better is great. I’m just not so sure how healthy that is. Have you tried any therapy? Or maybe talk to a guidance counselor?
I’ve also picked at my skin before it lasted 4 years
It sucks!! I stopped like complete cold turkey before my prom last year and my chest and shoulders looked spotless and then I had an episode 2 freaking days later and haven’t stopped since
I hope you find a way to control it before it gets any worse ❤️
Thank you
I’ve had Trichotillomania since I was a baby. Apparently, my parents gave me a stuffed animal and one day they came into my room and found that I had pulled most of its fur out and there was a ring of it around my crib. After they took it away, I started pulling out my own hair in handfuls until I had bleeding bald spots all over my head. They had to start cutting my hair short for a few years after that. After a lot of work and a lot of time (32 years later), I’ve gotten much better and it’s barely noticeable now. Every now and then I’ll absentmindedly run my fingers through my hair, pulling strands out, but nothing near like what I used to do. My advice would be to seek help and talk to your doctor about it before it gets out of hand (no pun intended).
I have the worst contamination ocd and I really need help. I told my mom about it and she told me I was crazy and need to get over it. I told my dad and he understands (he also has ocd) but doesn’t think I need to see a doctor. I literally live my life everyday worrying about being clean and I know it’s totally not normal, so I just want to go back living a normal life. And my parents don’t think I need help. What do I do? :(
Hello everyone. I have been having horrible thoughts ever since I turned 13, and now I’m almost 16, and still having them. When I turned 13, the thoughts were constant and nearly drove me to kill myself. I thought about killing my family and pets constantly, but, worst of all, especially my mother. Now, I sleep with my door closed to try to stop the thoughts and to keep from hearing or seeing my mom or dad. I love my parents and pets, especially my mother— she’s an amazing woman, and has done so much for me, but yet I’m still having these damn thoughts. I was at a bad school when I was 13, and then moved to another when I was 14. After a switched schools, the thoughts gradually began to lessen, but every few months, they get really bad again for a few weeks (I still have them daily out of those bad few weeks, but when they get bad, they get bad.) I’m currently going through one of those spurts. I have tried to talk to my dad about getting help, and even though he said that he’ll look for a therapist, it’s been nearly a year, and I still haven’t gotten help. I desperately want these thoughts to stop because I feel like a horrible person and I love my parents, family, and pets so much, but I’m terrified of opening up to my dad and telling him everything that I think about (I also have thoughts about sexually abusing children, but I don’t want to do it! I’m not attracted to children whatsoever, but I’m still thinking about it.) My self-esteem is absolutely horrible, and I feel like a monster for thinking about these things. I’m very much a daddy’s girl, and if he is disgusted or angry at me, then I honestly don’t know how I’d handle it. I really, really need help, but just don’t know how to go about doing it (I’ve thought about going to the school councilor, but they’ve made it known that, if they’re concerned about a student, that they’ll either contact their parents or the police.) My dad has said to just calm down and relax, but I literally can’t. We have mental illnesses on my mom’s side, and many of those people take pills, and when I’ve talked to my dad about my anxiety and depression, he’s said that pills aren’t the answer. Honestly, at this point I don’t care what treatment I get— all I care about is these thoughts stopping. I’m sorry if this is rambling and a little confusing, but my mind is all over the place right now. Any suggestions would be very much appreciated.
(tw) just washes my hands three times in the last five minutes - it’s literally becoming addictive and because of lockdown i can’t really turn to anyone anymore. i don’t want my mum to worry about me any more than she is.
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