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- 4y ago
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- 4y ago
I've struggled with this before. Ask yourself if what you're doing is in response to anxiety and your obsession, and if you're doing it in order to feel relief from your anxiety. The compulsion that was so difficult for me to notice was ruminating and over analyzing. I had just thought that it was part of my obsession, but I realized I was taking part in it as a compulsion and how unhelpful it is. I would try to think my way out of my obsession. Repitive googling sounds like a compulsion (I've done this one before too) but I don't think it matters if it's classified as pure or physical. If it's a compulsion, it's a compulsion and trying to resist it while doing exposures can be helpful.
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- 4y ago
I totally relate to this!
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- 4y ago
ahhh thank you so much
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- 4y ago
think of not doing what you think may be a compulsion. if just bu thinking of not doing it causes you distress/anxiety then it's a compulsion. also anything that makes you question whether it's ocd or not just treat it as OCD
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- 4y ago
I’ve had a hard time with this too. I think a good way to realize if what your doing is a compulsion is if your thoughts or actions are purposely being done to reduce anxiety OR to help find certainty. A lot of my compulsions aren’t done to know my fear isn’t real but instead to be certain that my fear is or isn’t real. Compulsions aren’t only done to make you feel better but just to find KNOW whether something is real or not. So instead of constantly trying to find answers or make the thought go away try to let yourself think and feel whatever your body happens to experience and leave it at that without intentionally pushing the envelope even more.
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- 4y ago
ah this is really helpful to me! i think most of my compulsions are more to find certainty than to abate anxiety if you get me? like i google and i ruminate and i seek reassurance when i’m doubting that i have ocd at all (which is irritatingly regular) i’m currently between therapists and struggling without that concrete pillar aha
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- 4y ago
@cwllms I’m the same way and totally get it. I actually posted something similar on here a little while ago looking for the difference between an obsession and mental compulsion and someone responded saying obsessions create anxiety and compulsions decrease them and I just didn’t know if that was always the case. The next day I actually watched a YouTube video with Chrissy Hodgens and John Hershfield (both of whom I abosloutly love) and he explained that sometimes compulsions are used to find certainty and not just to make us feel better. It was a huge Aha moment for me. If you suffer from pure o I highly recommend checking Chrissy hodgens out, she really gets it. https://youtu.be/yWjb6O0OmLA here’s a link to that video I mentioned, you may find it really useful!
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- 4y ago
If you ever feel like I need to do xyz to prevent abc from becoming true, It’s usually a compulsion.
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- 21w ago
That’s kinda my question. All my thoughts feel so realistic and so now I doubt if they are ocd and if I just can’t make my mind up about something and I’m using ocd as an excuse or something idc I feel like this post is word vomit.
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- 15w ago
I’m having a big OCD relapse and would like to hear anyone’s tips on how to be present and healthily deal with these intrusive thoughts and the “need” to preform compulsions. Thank you!!
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- 10w ago
When I was a child, before I knew this was OCD, I struggled with constant "magical thinking" compulsions (don't step on the crack or mom's back will actually break, etc). When I later learned this was OCD, it almost immediately solved it. Any time I got a magical thought, I would say to myself "that's just an OCD thought. ignore it." and it just stopped coming! Like seriously it fixed the magical thinking stuff forever. But of course the OCD has resurfaced in other ways. So naturally, I've tried to use the same strategy since I had so much success with it previously. But I wonder sometimes if telling myself "that's just OCD" is almost functioning as a reassurance compulsion? I hate how meta this gets. For example, I have ROCD that comes and goes. So sometimes I'll get a thought like "what if i'm still in love with my ex?" and then I'll tell myself "that's obviously just an ROCD thought" and will feel relief, almost like reassurance. But it comes back. So is telling myself that it's OCD a reassurance compulsion ?? It's just so weird because it worked so perfectly as a kid with the magical thinking thing.
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