xoxo123
- Date posted
- 6y
garden garden
- Date posted
- 6y
I know exactly how you feel. It sucks. But, as scary as it is, you’ve got to remember that you will be with yourself forever, so spend as much time as you can practicing self love. Be proud of who you are and how you look. Appreciate yourself and all your efforts to find happiness. And try your very very best to stop comparing yourself to other people. Much easier said than done, I know. But there will always be someone prettier, funnier, smarter etc. The only thing we all have in common is our differences, so we need to embrace them! I hope this helped a little bit :)
YasminYasmin
- Date posted
- 6y
I feel like this a lot too. But the best way to look at it is to remember that no person in this world is the same. Everyone is unique and different and thats what makes you you. Your idea of beauty may be completely different to someone else’s, but still, that doesn’t make the other people ugly. I’m sure that many people have looked at you and thought that you were beautiful and you just haven’t noticed it. You looking at these girls and thinking they’re really pretty shows that people can think other people are pretty and those people may not even know, which means that someone has probably done this to you too. Beauty is something that is ‘idealised’ in the media, but what you should remember is that your ideal idea of beauty can be different to somebody else’s, and that’s what makes everyone special. Everyone is beautiful in so many different ways. Don’t let it get you down, be proud of who you are and embrace yourself. You are you, and that is amazing in itself.
xoxo123xoxo123
- Date posted
- 6y
it helpped fr.. thanks!
xoxo123xoxo123
- Date posted
- 6y
omg.. thank u so much u really maked me think fr.. u totally right, this happens bcs im afraid of losing my boyf to other girl..
YasminYasmin
- Date posted
- 6y
That’s good ? you won’t lose him to another girl, he wouldn’t be with you if he didn’t love you and if he didn’t think you were a beautiful person. If he did leave you for another girl, that would be his loss, and would only mean that he was the wrong person for you and you’d deserve better. But he’s with you, and I’m sure he loves you.
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