- Username
- xoxo123
- Date posted
- 5y ago
I know exactly how you feel. It sucks. But, as scary as it is, you’ve got to remember that you will be with yourself forever, so spend as much time as you can practicing self love. Be proud of who you are and how you look. Appreciate yourself and all your efforts to find happiness. And try your very very best to stop comparing yourself to other people. Much easier said than done, I know. But there will always be someone prettier, funnier, smarter etc. The only thing we all have in common is our differences, so we need to embrace them! I hope this helped a little bit :)
I feel like this a lot too. But the best way to look at it is to remember that no person in this world is the same. Everyone is unique and different and thats what makes you you. Your idea of beauty may be completely different to someone else’s, but still, that doesn’t make the other people ugly. I’m sure that many people have looked at you and thought that you were beautiful and you just haven’t noticed it. You looking at these girls and thinking they’re really pretty shows that people can think other people are pretty and those people may not even know, which means that someone has probably done this to you too. Beauty is something that is ‘idealised’ in the media, but what you should remember is that your ideal idea of beauty can be different to somebody else’s, and that’s what makes everyone special. Everyone is beautiful in so many different ways. Don’t let it get you down, be proud of who you are and embrace yourself. You are you, and that is amazing in itself.
it helpped fr.. thanks!
omg.. thank u so much u really maked me think fr.. u totally right, this happens bcs im afraid of losing my boyf to other girl..
That’s good ? you won’t lose him to another girl, he wouldn’t be with you if he didn’t love you and if he didn’t think you were a beautiful person. If he did leave you for another girl, that would be his loss, and would only mean that he was the wrong person for you and you’d deserve better. But he’s with you, and I’m sure he loves you.
i hate myself.. i got to the point where if a girl walks in front of me and my boyfriend i look at him and if i see if he’s looking at her direction i got obsessive thoughts and i get mad with him even knowing that he can look and even knowing that he only loves me and im the girl most beautiful (to him, i dont think that im beautiful at all), i hate myself fr..
I have obsessions about my appearance that I am ugly. I check my face in the mirror and seek reassurance from others. I am constantly comparing myself to my friends and thinking they’re so beautiful and I am disgusting. It’s so hard to not hate myself when I feel like this :(
i am genuinely so ugly. like it’s so bad i cant look at myself in the mirror. i got dressed up for family and i just hate everything about myself. im so scared im going to hurt somebody out of this strong hatred of myself. i just want to feel good about myself again. i don’t know what to do. i keep getting irritated with my family and im so worried i’ll hurt them and snap. i want this to stop i cant live like this
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